Nov 20th 2007 By Asylum Staff

How to Have a Threesome -- Really Asking

OK, but really -- how does a guy convince her?

Ian Kerner: Some guys just try chronic begging. "What do I want for my birthday? I want a threesome. What do I want for our anniversary? A threesome."

I don't think you can convince anyone to do something they don't want to do, though. If she's expressed some curiosity, continue to explore it as a possibility through talking or maybe even enjoying some threesome pornography together.

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Monday 14 April

By sex toys

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To my mind the best way of having a threesome and not to hurt feelings of your beloved is to have a threesome in your single period with some kind of light-headed girls.

Thursday 06 December

By boredwell

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Why is it always two women, one man scenario? That's the 1st and most cliched menage a trois BS you are pandering to! 9 out of 10 guys will only experience 3somes as a fantasy. The other 2, either more crass or more suave, may have a chance of making their dreams-cum-true.Ask your male buddies. Percentage-wise,they're ALL lying if they say they've had even one experience. Women, in general and in particular, do not cuddle up to this guy fantasy.Ok, so now, you've finally "made it." You've got the girls (guys) and you think you're ready to GO. Yo, better take some choreography lessons first. Physically, 3 people in bed (on the floor et al)call for strategies and logistics. If you think that everything's going to "just happen" naturally, you've got it wrong. All wrong. While one (usually the dude) is salivating the other two may be rethinking the proposal;wondering where they fit in (between, over, under);or -YAWN-plotting their escape route, ie, "this is taking too long, I wanna go now." The guys are so proactive and gunked up sexually and mentally and emotionally and psychologically they either blow their cool right away or are so over-stimulated they can't get it up. Extended foreplay-to each their own-can soothe the teammates, help them get in the groove, make each more comfortable about talking frankly about what they want and where; and ,hopefully, make it an experience if not wholly wonderful than at least worth the time and effort and energy expended. Bottom Line: E caveat emptor, flagrante delicto is a LOT of WORK.

Saturday 08 December

By Sophia

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I'm a PTA mom and live in a conservative neighborhood.My experience with threesomes has always been very fun, spontaneous and we had absolutely no logostical problems like the previous post implies. Several years ago, I was pleasantly surprised to find out how adventurous and willing my lovers were. And practice definately made things better, but even the first times were not awkward. I'm a female who has always fantasized about group sex, threesomes, etc. In the end I've had about 10 threesomes. NO REGRETS!!

Sunday 09 December

By vicky coleman

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As a female who likes having sex with other females, but loves being married, the threesome was a natural. I liked it, my friend liked it, and my hubby was delighted beyond description.

Thursday 13 December

By priestess

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MFF threesomes are boring. FMM threesomes are hot. 2 men at one time that's dying and going to heaven. The men have to be equals. It's not the porn style, the woman is worshipped.

Thursday 20 December

By POWERSHAKER

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I think every guy fantasizes about a threesome, but I find that guys are on the majority hypocritical. First, they want to marry a pure hearted virgin from the Bible who has never had any sexual experiences, and on the other hand, they want to have sex with a Cleopatra. Now, which one do we want, because if you love a woman, surely she should be enough for you sexually? But, if you want to have a threesome, there are plenty of ugly girls, prostitutes, slime, strippers and the like that if the money is right, you'll get your threesome. But, just what is that worth in the long run. I'm a guy. I know that threesomes are every man's fantasy. What man does not want hundreds of women licking and loving all over him? But, then I come to my senses, and I realize that love has nothing to do with sex. I have come to understand if you love a woman, surely you're not going to make her feel like she's not enough for you in the first place? I mean, that's pretty lame, man. If I want a threesome that bad, I'll buy two prostitutes and do an American Psycho. But, I just find that it's better to keep the fantasy on the toilet stool and come back to my senses afterwards?