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Threesome -- Fast forward through almost any porn movie, and a threesome seems like a fine way for drunken neighbors, bored coeds or PTA members to pass the time.
While this may seem like an impossible fantasy, for some guys a threesome isn't attainable only by rental or download. A lucky few make this dream come true with a combination of planning, seduction and birthday-wish begging.
We asked sex therapist Ian Kerner, author of "She Comes First," to tell us how to pull off this horny hat trick without anyone getting hurt. Be warned: It isn't as easy as the "Double Pom-Pom Parade" would have you believe, and there are risks you may not expect.
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Saturday 01 March
By Carl Tapp
HAVING A THREESOME OR MORESOME IS AS EASY AS SPENDING
SOME TIME AT A SWINGERS PARTY OR CLUB. I DID IT MANY TIMES WHEN I WAS YOUNGER, AND IT IS VERY EXCITING .
I AM ALSO A MEMBER OF THE 60 MILES PER HOUR CLUB. AFTER
GOING TO A SWINGERS PARTY IN MIAMI -- S.P. AND I TRIED IT
WHILE DRIVING NORTH ON I-95. I WOULD LOVE TO JOIN THE
MILE HIGH CLUB .
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Saturday 01 March
By Gretchen Ann
Been There bad Idea
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Saturday 01 March
By bigpapa2cul
I have always woundered about having a threesome. Then I thought about it real hard. The time did come one New Years Eve. I was like "WOW" is this really going to happen. Me and 2 fine ass women. Well, I will have to wait for the oppertunity to come around again. I ended up just sleeping with only one of them. Call me a puss or call me a coward. I call me satisfied. The whole fantasy for me was just that, a fantasy. You've heard, more than a mouthful is a waste. Well, you can have 20 drinks in you hand but, you can really only enjoy one at a time.
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Saturday 15 March
By John
I have had several threesomes. They have never hurt the relationship and are some of the best sex times I have had. Everyone should do it. We have even had triads that lasted for months. Good stuff.
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Saturday 01 March
By gretchen Krass
The reason why threesomes usually blow up in peoples faces is because each person reacts to it differently when it’s over. In most cases it means that one person in the relationship is board and needs more stimulation. It only seems to work if the couple are already swingers, and don’t expect or have a real comment to the relationship. I have had a many experiences with it, and I would say that it means the beginning of the end of the relationship. Even if you’re somebody who thinks it works and adds more excitement to you marriage, I would say give it time and it will blow up in your face. It changes the rules and boundaries of your relationship, even if you think your setting rules about what you’re doing.Marriage Is about love and commitment between two people, once you cross that line you are breaking the commitment and changing the dynamic of the relationship, and creating a new one. You’re making the commitment worth- less, even if you don’t think you are. I say all that even though I’m happier in the relationship I am in now. It’s just a fact nothing more and nothing less. And to Randy, Give it two years and watch, your wife won’t want you anymore, She will earthier resent you or want something better. I am now in a happy exciting hot relationship with the person we were having one of the threesomes with; So watch it bud, mark my words, You think you have this "open"solid relationship with your wife,dont be a fool, It will hunt you in the end. Approach it with caution. And to anyone who wants a threesome for there anniversary, grow up and think about making hot love to the person that you promised to honor and love for the rest of you life. Its much sexier to do the work to keep the sex alive in you real relationship ,don't be lazy and fall for a fantasy.
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Saturday 01 March
By Illosophee
I've never had a threesome and honestly do not want one. I know for a fact that if I even mention the idea to my g/f, even if she decides to stay with me, which I would highly doubt after such a despicable comment, our relationship would be awkward and un-romantic. I don't want to sacrifice my relationship with the love of my life by claiming a false lie... Threesomes. Ha! Only porn stars should have those... Or friends who do not want to be in a relationship, but want to experiment with one another...
Whatever the case may be, threesomes are not my cup of tea and never will be.
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Sunday 02 March
By Michael S
Threesomes are great. Foursomes are even better. During marriage never had an opportunity as I knew my wife would not agree. Divorced for 3 years now, I live in Asia, I still like 1 on 1 as a preference, however, occasionally I do have 2 or 3 women join me. The secret is to allow the women select the partners they are interested in. If the man selects each one to HIS preference, 100% there will be problems with the women during or afterwards. Good Luck and practice safe sex!
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Sunday 02 March
By Ricky
I have had 3 thresomes and they ranges from HOT to NOT. It was me and two guys each time. It is amazing having two guys attending to your every sexual desire. The feeling of having two hard bodies pressed against yours if wonderful. Although the other side of it is if the couple just wants you as an object, to do as they want, without any regard for you. That sucks, and not the good way! I was not in a realtionship at these times.
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Sunday 02 March
By charie
I HAVE HAD 3 SOMES 2 XS ME ADN ANOTHER GIRL AND WE DIDNT TOUCH EACH OTHER BUT TOOK ON THE GUY AND HE LOVED IT BUT 1 X I AHD MY FRIEND STORM OUT IN THE MIDDLE CAUSE HE LIKED SCREWING ME BETTER AND SHE WAS JEALOUS THE OTHER TIME IT WAS ALL GOOD AND MY FIRST 1 WAS ME AND 2 GUYS I MET IN A BAR I WAS GORGEOUS THEY WERE GORGEOUS THEY BOTH WANTED ME I WANTED THEM BOTH SO I AHD THEM BOTH AND THEY BOTH CAME NOT ME I WAS TO NERVOUS BUT IT WAS FUNNNNN I SUGGEST EVERYONE TRY IT I LOVED THEM THERE GREAT BUT U GOT TO BE REAL HORNY TO TAKE ON 2 MEN AND I WAS LMFAO...
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Sunday 02 March
By Bigbinips
3-somes are a bit tricky to say the least! I'm a Bi-Female and whenever I have been in one for the so-called pleasure of the man, the female of the couple usually have certain RULES that are spelled out! Ex. No kissing, I had to stay near her, I couldn't do head better than her, he could not finish in me, I had to leave when they were ready to finish, I could only go oral on her as if she didn't enjoy it while he was in the room, pure craziness! Needless to say, it is NOT something I do any longer just for the pleasure of the man! If the woman is not Bi, then bye-bye! But, then that poses another set of problems, mainly the male wants to be a pron director and have us go at each other as HE desires! Another NO! 2 females, Bi or not, really don't need a man to direct the action, just let it happen! Then the biggest problems lie in the emotional feelings that result in the aftermath-one or both lovers (the couple) may feel cheated or that the partner paid more attention to the outsider than them, or I've had one or both partners who wanted to do it again but w/o the other one knowing about it! If you are doing it to please someone else and not as something you want to do or if you will have negative feelings thereafter DON'T DO IT!
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Sunday 02 March
By Tony
Well, what can I say guys?. I KNOW I’m one of the lucky ones. I've had several threesomes, mostly with the same two hotties. Both girlfriends of mine in the past who had never met before. I convinced the current gf that if she liked the previous one and vice versa we'd do it. I took them both out to dinner and afterwards, one went to the bathroom so I could see what the other thought. She was ready. The other one came back, this one went and the key question was ready to be popped. It was a BIG yes, and the rest is history. We had a hotel room that had x movies available and we didn't even get the TV turned on before we were all naked and going at it.
This went on ALL night. I left to get some more drinks and came back to find them still at it. I think we awakened their 'other sides' that night. Needless to say I was in horndog Heaven. A man has not truly lived until he's experienced two sets of everything wonderful about two 20-something hotties at the same time. More details would have to be more graphic than I feel like revealing. We went out to clubs together two or three more times and it was always amusing to see guys crowd one or the other only to have them both say, 'we're with Tony.'' The looks that got me were priceless.
I have fully-clothed picture of us from one clubnight but I don’t see how to post it to this e, so you're left to your own imaginations. Pam: 5'6'' 105lbs petite blonde. Wendi: 5'8'' 110lbs STACKED brunette. Wow, that was more fun than the law allows, as they say.
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Wednesday 09 April
By sex toys
I think the only possibility to have a threesome and not to hurt somebody's feelings is to find a couple of dare-devil girls, that are friends for a long time and are ready to have some new sex adventures.
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Wednesday 27 August
By uday
ya think about threesome always turn me on. i think threesome is the best thing to do in our sexual life. and i would love to do threesome
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Sunday 14 September
By judyxyc
TWO GIRLS AND A GUY Eeeeeeeeeeee !
THE GIRLS CAN PRACTICE " SNOW-BALLING " LIKE THEY DO ON THE BIG SCREEN IN ADULT FILMS / IT GET's SLIPPERY AS HELL ! Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee !
I THINK THEY ALSO CALL SNOW-BALLING AS THE SLIPPERY KISS !
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Sunday 14 September
By judyxyc
I HOPE THE GUY CAN HANDLE IT !
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Sunday 26 October
By Lawrence M. Calderon
Hi there,I'm kind of new to the scene,but I catch on pretty quick.
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Wednesday 18 February
By jv
with HIV around i wouldint
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Sunday 30 December
By Randy
For my wife and I ,having threesomes is an incredible addition to our sex lives and we both find it incredibly stimulating and enjoyable.It works for us first because we have joint desire to experience them and are completely open with each other.If your relationship isn't solid we recommend keeping it a fantasy.
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