Sure, you want a wife who will love you unconditionally, raise your children and wash your dirty socks. But you live in an Asian village in the middle of nowhere. How do you convince that special someone that she could be happy with you in the boonies for the rest of your lives?Cold hard cash -- or at least the promise of a better quality of life.
At least, that's what many men think. There's a growing trend of Asian men from rural villages casting about in poor countries like Vietnam and the Philippines to find women who are willing to relocate.
Desperate dudes will pay a marriage broker as much as $20,000 to fly them out to a poor country like Vietnam, set them up with a mate and quickly map out their future.
"They meet each other in the morning and get married in the afternoon," Mary Kim, vice president of the Inchon Women's Hotline -- which offers language training and counseling to foreign brides -- is quoted as saying. "Then they go to a hotel. It's a very abnormal way to get married."
Question raised: Are men helping to improve the lives of these women or just buying slaves?
Maybe those guys should try to be nicer to the women and woo them with gifts?
Hey could also try some seduction with music.


























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Thursday 28 February
By kirsten1269
you have got to be kidding me - this is paid slavery! no offense but any man that has to pay a woman to get married to him is stupid - give yourself more credit than that!
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Wednesday 08 July
By larry
do you believe in the bible?
well, the only way a man can biblically get married is to buy a woman from a father, and/or the father gives her away....exceptions come when the woman lost her parents......
Thursday 28 February
By Alexa
Ten years ago people were flying across the country to go on a date and marry. Now dating is global. Our firm is a match maker. We let Americans date the hottest all-natural girls from Brazil. Enjoy your day. ~ Alexa
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Saturday 26 December
By ROBERT KILPATRICK
im looking for me a wife can you help me find one
Thursday 28 February
By Robert
Both parties benefit, whats the problem?
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Thursday 28 February
By calistud4fem
modern form of bride slavery
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Tuesday 19 August
By jay
It's only slavery because the women in todays world have no value/morals. If women today can accept a person for who they are and not how much he makes, or being superficial/materialistic, then you women wouldn't complain.
Plain and simple, the women today are being replaced with what men want.
Thursday 28 February
By Michael
This is a complete distortion of the mail order bride story. First of all, the vacations do not cost nearly as much as the article claims. It is the cost of a normal vacation and much better than any vacation you have ever been on. You meet the most beautiful, intelligent and charming women in your life. If you are lucky to find a special match they date them over several days, weeks, months or even years. Sometimes you just become really good friends. Sometimes more. It is not slavery nor is it a sex tour. People who say this are truly ignorant and believe everything they read.
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Thursday 28 February
By chris
Yeah what ever... I am sure that uneducated women who know no differnt of a life jump at this.. It sounds like slavery but if they fall in love and the partnership is equal... But it sounds like an invitation for abuse. It does sound like slavery.
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Thursday 28 February
By Melissa Wilson
I read the original article and I don't think this is such a bad thing. It's only slavery if the woman doesn't have a choice. Also, I was impressed that the man seems to value the woman enough to pay out that money and go to that trouble! I'm a housewife and I gave up working outside the home for the benefit of a special needs son.
It sounds to me like they are going to the poorer countries because those countries have the old fashioned values, not the modern ones.
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Saturday 01 March
By Vicroria
Well, I guess it all depends on the man. I know a few that should do it. Maybe then there would be no tears I would need to wipe away from my brothers face. The fact is alot of women are nasty with no morals or strandards. And if they have Any sense of morals and strandards; then they may be God beleivers. Some do just because it is the right thing to do. But finding a woman like that is like winning the lottory.
What I would like to know is; does anyone check on these women and see if everything is ok?
When people treat each other with kindness they fall in love. It doesn't matter how they met. Just that they did. And that they are happy with each other. Heck, I paid that to help someone have a better life. Having more then one meal a day is great! They can return the favorite by cooking and cleaning for me. The right trustworthly person.
I do hope there is a exit clause so if it doesn't work out they can get back home. or somewhere safe.
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Thursday 28 February
By cindy
It's not slavery if the woman agrees to it. She is just asking for whatever life she ends up with when she accepts.
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Thursday 28 February
By John
Nothing wrong with a women who dates men that are able to take care of them You cantone live on love I dont blame a women for not wanting to be with a broke down man.
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Thursday 28 February
By gg mexico
how is this different than the 22 year old airhead scottsdale blonde that marries the 55 year old repulsive wealthy biz man? same scenario, just more direct, to the point and honest.
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Thursday 28 February
By Mark
Slavery? Women now days expect to be spoonfed there life full of gifts and pampered like a spoiled child. I think this is just a way for men to get a decent wife and not give away everything he ever worked for. American women think they are born with men oweing them a life paid for in advance. We should all do this and make the American women actually have to work for there 50%
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Thursday 28 February
By Lily
Well, Mark, I'm sure most American women would be more than fine "working for their 50%" as you say, if they were actually paid equal wages for equal work, which they aren't. Also, you're more than welcome to do your 50% share of the housework and raising the kids. Fairness all the way around!
By the way, the article was about Chinese men marrying other Asians, not Americans.
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Tuesday 05 April
By adam taylor
i have no wife or children and the women i have met have no sense of 50%, they do expect to be spoon fed with three dicks on the side aswell. it is true that american women are a joke and a huge part of the problem today in american marriages. im only 26 so im talking about the younger generation. if a man is paying for the house and food, the women better get her ass up and learn to cook, clean, raise children, and do whatever it takes to make me happy or hit the road. as for equal wages ha you dont get equal wages because your not doing the work. simple. no women i know could do half the job im doing on a daily basis and thats the honest truth so dont expect to get paid to stand around and look pretty. hope that makes your day.
Thursday 28 February
By Little Big Man
I was married to a Filipino for eight years. Everything was great untill the economy went south along with my job and my house. She found her self a rich man-but she was'nt happy and got caught cheating on him reciently.
My mistake was bringing her her to America where she became americanized by the spoiled American women here.
I would (and probably will) marry another Filipino but I would never bring her here to America.
I am working on my bachlors in english w/ a minor in english as a second language.
There is a large demand for english teachers in the South Pacific Region. I will find plenty of work in that area of the world and I will retire in the Philipine Islands where my pention and social security will allow me to live like a king after the exchange rate and if my woman cheats on me over there she can be easly replaced. The thing is she will know that she can be easly replaced and she won't cheat on me in that part of the world besides she would disgrace her family by cheating on me.
For you american whores who are thinking that I will cheat on her ... you don't know me!
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Thursday 28 February
By debra
Well i can believe this...the simple fact that am a white woman that married a vietnemese man back in 1978.we were married for 25 years and have 2 daughters,well he changed his mind one day and wanted a divorce after all those years.He went back to his country and bought this young woman here.Got married to her fast.so i dont think he knew her that soon to marry her .I think he bought her.just all to weird.
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Thursday 28 February
By Leland
I am not sure about paying for a bride, but I did meet a women on the net about a year ago, she lives just outside of manila.
We spend about two hours every morning chatting, I call two or three times a week.
We have really hit it off, I am planing a trip there late this year....
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