Premature ejaculators of the world, take heart. Scientific research is now on your side. According to a new study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, the best sex should last between seven and 13 minutes. The report, which surveyed a random sample of Americans and Canadians, also found that most people considered sex lasting three to seven minutes "adequate," and most thought sex for over 13 minutes was "too long."
Other recent studies show that while most people in the United States expect sex to last between 15 and 20 minutes, it is generally over in about half that time.
Interestingly, in response to the survey, Australian sex therapist Jane Howard noted that women are generally happy with a quick hit, while men tend not to be.
"There is a major gender difference in this area," Dr Howard is quoted as saying. "Usually women are quite happy with short intercourse, and are not bothered about prolonging it at all, but nearly all men want it to be much, much longer."
The money shot: Let's hear it, boys. Do you like it longer or shorter than ten minutes?Want to make those 7-to-13 minutes weird?
Make sure you're giving it your best.


























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Thursday 06 March
By Samantha
Ok no body cares how long people have sex .... I say there is no time period it just depends on if they want it long or short.
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Friday 13 June
By bling-bling gadzety
yeah it depends of girl type.
Some got enouth after 15minutes and some'll never have enought:)
Thursday 06 March
By mike smith
This is part of a plot by the freemasons to take over the world. They've been putting saltpeter in municipal water supplies for years so men would get ED and have to spend a fortune on Viagra. With the ecomony so undermined, and low morale from abstinance, the country will be primed for a masonic takeover.
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Thursday 06 March
By wilfred ortega
I have had long and short f___ing sessions, it depends on alot of circumstances, Married? 1-night stands, girlfriend, prostitute, drunk, location, good looking, fat, skinny, etc. how can anyone determine which is best? All these situations can change the time limit....mood and partner should be the main factor as to which is best...for me they are all good!
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Thursday 06 March
By Kellegher
Firstly, I find it interesting that the survey seems to center upon the "sex act" bu says little about foreplay. Sex is the culmination of a whole series of actions and events that ends with "the old in out" as it was described in the book "A Clockwork Orange". Secondly, we guys sometimes have trouble figuring out what women want: sex or orgasm. I feel guilty if she doesn't come, but she says it isn't the same for her. she just wants good motion and she's happy
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Thursday 06 March
By Cesar
When I was younger it didn't matter and we went on as long as it felt good. I even stopped once without ejaculating the mere passion was pleasant enough. Then I wondered how long I could go and started aiming at higher times... however, I found that to be unfulfiling in itself and started focusing again on just having a great moment with my partner and since then I've been quite satisfied. So in short, shorter can be better if you're both having a great time, and then you could go again cause you've got the spare energy.
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Thursday 06 March
By stephen Hahn
any time is better than nothing....for sure....
as a man short means I did not did not do my job
Oh well,,,,, I keep trying to get it right
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Thursday 06 March
By Kevinbgood621
I reckon the hour or two it takes me to " Finish " would be considered somewhat of a freak show . I like to talk them kiss then about 1/2 hour of oral then intercourse ... about 2 to three hours total . Not bragging but I wonder why people would sit through 3 hours of a movie but not more than fifteen minutes of sex ?
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Wednesday 24 September
By cubanitagirl
i agree with you.
Thursday 06 March
By Pam
Not all women agree with that short decision :)
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Thursday 06 March
By Dan
Some women are fine with a shorter time period during the act. Want it to last longer? Take an anti-depressant. That seems to do the trick. Makes the act more of an effort for some men. Yet does not prevent the act from happening.
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Thursday 06 March
By velvett
Thursday 06 March
By Kevinbgood621
"I reckon the hour or two it takes me to " Finish " would be considered somewhat of a freak show . I like to talk them kiss then about 1/2 hour of oral then intercourse ... about 2 to three hours total . Not bragging but I wonder why people would sit through 3 hours of a movie but not more than fifteen minutes of sex ?"
Rock on Kevin!!
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Thursday 06 March
By HAROLD
DAM I DONT CARE AS LONG AS I GET SOME
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Thursday 06 March
By Linda
From a counseling prospective I think Kevin has the right technique.............When mamas happy everyones happy...............Making love should be like savoring every bite of a good meal...........there isnt anything in life that matches it.........God created it and it is good.......for married couples with commitment.........love is responsibility......things go bad when approached any other way.......when are we going to learn to do things Gods way????? We would be much happier.......
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Thursday 06 March
By Catman
When is the last time you sat and totally enjoyed a 3 hour movie? I can guarantee that MOST of the time, shorter sex is fine. Not saying once in a while a longer session isn't good, but geez...who has time for two hour sex sessions every other night? Try having kids
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Thursday 06 March
By Shell
My friend and I were just having a discussion the other day about "the final act" and all the stuff that happens before. Most women, if they're honest, will tell you we don't have "The big O" during the act all that often. It took me YEARS to convince my hubby that I'm good with that. We prefer the time leading up to it. Most of my female friends agree that the shorter "final act" time is much more preferable. I think the reason guys want it to last longer is because they equate longer with better... which leads to the conclusion that most men.. .just don't realize how much the stuff before hand actually means to us. Ohhh and one more thing... the oral stuff.. being done for us.. while nice, is as much about your willingness to do it as it is how it feels. I don't think I have any female friends that actually say they've "done it" with just that. So really... expecting a girl to "get it" that you guys just LOVE that... sometimes it's difficult because we're sitting there going "really?????" We all love a quickie every now and again.. and then there are the all night things where you wake up so tired thinking.. Why did I do that? Then you get that little grin on your face and go... ohhh yeah..now I remember! Who cares how long it lasts... as long as it's good!
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Wednesday 16 July
By gmoney
I think guys like it longer because it feels better to cum after building up...
I think though alot depends on the mood.
A quick 5 minute pin against the wall can be just as good as an hour long jamboree
But come on, you and your friends have never came from a guy giving you oral?
you've never almost broke your mans neck with your thighs while hes down there ... so sad...
Thursday 06 March
By michelle
7 to 13 minutes is plenty of time to waste if they guy isnt very good. haha. sorry guys.
and if the guy is very very good yeah 7-13 minutes would work for that too.
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Thursday 06 March
By Scottie
This survey is so totally true. Oh my god I thought that I was turning into the guy of the relationship. Now I found out that lots of other women feel the same way. Awesome! I'm not a freak after all. Me and my man have been together for 11 years now and have one child. We still go at it an average of 4 times a week. See shorter does do better. Now I feel bad for making fun of him saying the older he gets the more of a women he turns into. I don't know exactley how the other women feel but if we both finish in about 10 minutes then I feel like my job was a job well done. Makes me feel like I still got it after 11 years of the same ol stuff.
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Thursday 06 March
By ELE
Wow, I find it interesting that more men commented than women. I have opinions of my own on this topic but I'll respond first to those who have commented before me.
mike smith: you're an idiot and an obsessed one at that, perhaps that's why you're not getting laid.
wilfred: I can only hope you use a GREAT deal of protection, not for yourself as you don't seem to give a rat's ass but rather for those unfortunate horny souls you snare into your STD lair.
Kelligher: She's lying to you if she said she 'didn't care'. 'Good motion' is what I feel when I'm happily licking an ice cream cone and evidently is much more satisfying than having sex with you.
KevinBGood: Make sure the conversation is interesting enough otherwise she'll just wish you'd 'hurry up and finish already' so she can get a decent nights sleep. Chatter is quaint at first but don't over-do it ~ she's not in bed with you because she wants to be 'enlightened'.
Dan: You Need an antidepressant... hell, I NEED one just reading your lame post.
My Two Cents Worth: LIFE is short, it's not quantity that matters so much even though in our society we've been 'trained' to think so. Quality and the intensity of that quality is what I believe we're ALL looking for here in this world. If you've EVER had an out of this freakin world orgasim in your life... you KNOW what I'm talking about here. Take your time, know your partner, push all the 'wonderful' buttons and watch something beautiful unfold within you and from without.
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