Premature ejaculators of the world, take heart. Scientific research is now on your side. According to a new study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, the best sex should last between seven and 13 minutes. The report, which surveyed a random sample of Americans and Canadians, also found that most people considered sex lasting three to seven minutes "adequate," and most thought sex for over 13 minutes was "too long."
Other recent studies show that while most people in the United States expect sex to last between 15 and 20 minutes, it is generally over in about half that time.
Interestingly, in response to the survey, Australian sex therapist Jane Howard noted that women are generally happy with a quick hit, while men tend not to be.
"There is a major gender difference in this area," Dr Howard is quoted as saying. "Usually women are quite happy with short intercourse, and are not bothered about prolonging it at all, but nearly all men want it to be much, much longer."
The money shot: Let's hear it, boys. Do you like it longer or shorter than ten minutes?Want to make those 7-to-13 minutes weird?
Make sure you're giving it your best.
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Friday 07 March
By Kristi
FEELING SORRY FOR YOUR WIFE.....U TURN MY STOMACH.
Thursday 06 March
By James
Guess I understand why the wife gets mad at me now, I like at least a 1/2 hour of foreplay, kissing and playing with her breasts and nipples and fingering her and then at least an hour and half of licking and sucking her kitty and making her orgasm on my tongue and in my mouth, while I continue to play with her breasts and nipples with my fingers, and then screwing her for 3-4 hours making her have multiple climaxes again and again before I finally time my release and orgasm with her and then lick her kitty clean of our combined love juices. I guess I'm taking too long and should stop what I'm doing by lasting so long, no brag, just fact, and no I don't use any drugs to accomplish this feat, just me and I've been doing this since I was 12 years old.
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Friday 07 March
By Vmoniquet
No Way!! That's no pleasure or fun if it's shorter than 30 min!! I'm a tgirl!, baby they have to cum correct!!! Belive that!!!
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Friday 07 March
By don
I don't think long or short matters. The item to question would be the frequency of sex. In addition, Mike Smith who thinks the Freemasons are putting saltpeter into the drinking supply...needs to go in for a check up. Of course he may never come out. So mote it be !!!!!!
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Friday 07 March
By PD
I am older than my husband by 9 yrs and I only wish he'd last longer ,cause by the time I'm just getting there he's done! he's tryin to help by taking the viagra but it cost too much and I worry about his health when he takes it ,plus to be honest it really doesnt help the cause...
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Friday 07 March
By jackie
The shorter the better to me...get it over with is my thought. Men don't even get it that 90% of all orgasms are faked by women. No lie.
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Friday 07 March
By gerald
I am a 50yo male and have been able to satisfy all the females I have been with by developing an emotional bond first. I stimulate them, orally or manually whatever their preference before engaging the act, until they are ready. I prefer females under 30 because they have less baggage and are really fascinated by well endowed men. I have ran into girls I had relations with from years past who were still bonded to me. I have never been a bed hopper and I think bonding makes it. I can last for an hour+ or i can let it go when she is ready. Its all about control through bonding to needs that satisfies.
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Friday 07 March
By get outta here
I'd be really ticked at 7-13 minutes. If that's what men are doing to their wives, no wonder their wives aren't giving it up. A woman who says that is adequate is a woman giving you courtesy sex. Since it takes a woman's body 20 minutes to get warmed up how on earth is 7 minutes good. I'm usually very articulate but this article blew my mind. I'm glad my man knows better. After reading this, I'll be showing him some serious appreciation when he gets home.
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Friday 07 March
By hippy420ff
I got an idea, why dont you all just go F__K yourselves. At least then we wouldnt have to discuss this topic. If you want something done right, you gotta do it yourself!
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Friday 07 March
By Carolyn
Time means nothing. Quality is always there when w/ someone that you just want, but it's the quantity that really makes my day. Someone wanting you over and over is awesome!
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Friday 07 March
By Al
I a male am out of action now temporarily but I always preferred about 7 minutes with frequent repetitions on same day.Like three 7 minute repetitions maybe twice a week.Sometimes at night I would go for as many as 8 hours with say 7 to 10 minutes per hr. till Iwas exhausted (Usually with a new romance) but that was me 40 years ago. Now in my 70s I've slowed down due to medications for high blood pressure
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Saturday 08 March
By RedEyeAm
I like to spend some time, and not rush into it. .let her know that I care by exploring every inch of her body with my hands, lips, and tongue. She will appreciate this. If she doesn't appreciate it or says something to the nature of "Hurry Up," she will have then killed the mood and be asked to leave.
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Saturday 08 March
By Aren
My wife and I have been married 18-years, with two teenagers
now, and our SEX just gets better every time. My wife on the average has a minimum of 20-to-50 orgasms every time we get the time (once a month) rain or shine!!! I will go for at least an
hour 'till I orgasm, if I try for two (I will stay hard for a long time
after I come) my second orgasm will take even longer. There are
times when I am so involved in my wife's pleasure, that I will go
without coming myself, and I'm fine with that. One of the great
things about both of us making love for so long, is the far higher
incidence of simultaneous orgasms, it doesn't happen often, but
it has happened often enough, that it has become an attainable
pursuit that keeps us very happy. So in our case, YES! my wife
and I both prefer our lovemaking to go longer.
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Saturday 08 March
By ken swezey
As a Gentleman, it's always " Woman first", after that it is all good.
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Sunday 09 March
By Jamie
Well, I will try my damnest to NEVER get a divorce after reading some of these posts. My husband and I go for about 10-15 minutes sometimes 30 and I climax EVERYTIME, unless I choose not to....otherwise I love sex with him and don't mind it lasting longer if we both want it to....switching positions often makes it last. I hate to say it because I feel lucky that I can have an orgasm, while some if not most women have never experienced an inner vaginal orgasm without clitoral stimulation, but he
(my husband) can get me to climax with only 3-5 strokes or about 1-3 minutes.
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Monday 10 March
By DonR
What the heck is this minute stuff ? You young ones don't take time to smell the roses ! My GF and I are seniors and have a very active sex life. We spend more time with foreplay than you spend in the whole act.
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Monday 10 March
By mike stuart
There are so many misconceptions about male sexuality, one hardly knows where to begin. How could the greatest human pleasure be over in 20 minutes? Men and woman who are truly in touch with their sexuality can (and do) make love for hours.
As men get get older, while the need for climax, eventually, still remains, the desire for prolonged humping ahead of time increases. Most woman, particulary younger woman, don't understand this. I hate it when a woman thinks she has failed because I don't reach climax during a particular sexual romp.
I also believe the greatest sexual myth regarding female sexuality is their need for foreplay. Bah humbug! Nina Hartley, the adult film actress, advises woman to "jump on in" just as men do.
Finally, I submit, rhetorically, the following question. Do most people really believe adult film stars in general, woman in particular, "fake" pleasure, and approach their work as "just another job"?
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Wednesday 12 March
By LtCurry 82nd.
The Free Masons plot to take over the world, LOL.
They have about as much political power as a member of the Elks club, or the Moose. It is a ritual Club where there is still pride in learning the text and the routines that have been in place since our founding fathers created the constitution. And a plot to take over the world is laughable. Unless you are a paranoid liberal who believes what the National Inquirer says.
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Monday 17 March
By pooloo
I think the most important factor is how compatible you are with your partner. Whether its an hour, or 3 minutes doesn't really matter because what you do with the time is the thing. My girl knows me and I know her and the most subtle of movements or postures or touches opens a whole new door to be explored for...however long we want it to. Sometimes it gets done in 10 minutes but every once in a while when we just want to 'savor the moment' - I put it on compatibility and partner
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Friday 14 March
By Lana
Personally i think your all crazy. It all depends on weather it's making love or making sex. Making love and making sex is similar in some ways but is 2 completely different worlds apart. Making sex is just doing it for the physical pleasure and that's about it. Making love is when your spiritual energy connects 100 - 100. When he is 100% into you and your 100% into him. It's usually in a extremely deep commited relationship where both are 100% faithful. When he looks at you across a crowded room and you can feel him touching you with his eyes, this is even a form of making love. I have created an art of making love without touching and when you have mastered it, it is just as powerful as intercourse. Of course i like the touching kind too. There has to be FOREPLAY / AFTERPLAY / EYE CONTACT / & TALKING TO EACH OTHER. A man enjoys teasing me for hours and sometimes days on and off because he knows i like to be teased to the breaking point. Then he finally decides to give it to me. Alot of times we would make love til the birds woke up outside. And one time i made love from 7P - 8A. To both of us it really doesn't matter if we cum or not. And then sometimes i need to feel him loose it deep inside me. And sometimes he likes to come inside me just so he can look into my eyes to see what he's doing to me, maybe even grab me by the hair and force me to look into his eyes so i can experience what he is experiencing at the same time. WHAT I'VE READ ABOVE SADDENS ME. IT SEEMS LIKE THE WHOLE WORLD IS COLD AND CALLOUSED AND IMPOTENT. Impotence can happen from drugs, alchohol and even pot, You won't have much of a spirit or conscious left with these three. No wonder people can't feel anything or enjoy anything any more. THIS IS 100% TRUE AND HAS BEEN WRITTEN BY A 45 YEAR OLD FEMALE.
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Friday 14 March
By cimbakahn
Personally i think your all crazy. It all depends on weather it's making love or making sex. Making love and making sex is similar in some ways but is 2 completely different worlds apart. Making sex is just doing it for the physical pleasure and that's about it. Making love is when your spiritual energy connects 100 - 100. When he is 100% into you and your 100% into him. It's usually in a extremely deep commited relationship where both are 100% faithful. When he looks at you across a crowded room and you can feel him touching you with his eyes, this is even a form of making love. I have created an art of making love without touching and when you have mastered it, it is just as powerful as intercourse. Of course i like the touching kind too. There has to be FOREPLAY / AFTERPLAY / EYE CONTACT / & TALKING TO EACH OTHER. A man enjoys teasing me for hours and sometimes days on and off because he knows i like to be teased to the breaking point. Then he finally decides to give it to me. Alot of times we would make love til the birds woke up outside. And one time i made love from 7P - 8A. To both of us it really doesn't matter if we cum or not. And then sometimes i need to feel him loose it deep inside me. And sometimes he likes to come inside me just so he can look into my eyes to see what he's doing to me, maybe even grab me by the hair and force me to look into his eyes so i can experience what he is experiencing at the same time. WHAT I'VE READ ABOVE SADDENS ME. IT SEEMS LIKE THE WHOLE WORLD IS COLD AND CALLOUSED AND IMPOTENT. Impotence can happen from drugs, alchohol and even pot, You won't have much of a spirit or conscious left with these three. No wonder people can't feel anything or enjoy anything any more. THIS IS 100% TRUE AND HAS BEEN WRITTEN BY A 45 YEAR OLD FEMALE.
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