Winning is "not a matter of life and death," according to the venerable sporting adage coined by former UCLA football coach Red Saunders, "it's more important than that." The reality, of course, is the exact opposite, and that fact was vividly illustrated by the actions of the high school basketball players and coaches of DeKalb, Ill., and Milwaukee Madison earlier this month.During the day of their match-up, Milwaukee's captain, Johntel Franklin (pictured here) had the misfortune of being at his mother's bedside when she succumbed to a five-year battle with cervical cancer. Understandably, he decided to skip the game, but later Franklin changed his mind.
In the second quarter, he arrived late in what was a close game. Because Franklin was not scheduled to play, DeKalb were awarded two free throws for a technical foul. DeKalb's Darius McNeal stepped to the line, and proceeded to purposely miss the shots, bouncing the ball several times on their way to the baseline. McNeal's attempts were rewarded with a standing ovation from players and fans from both teams.
Franklin eventually scored 10 points as Milwaukee won comfortably. Afterwards, players from both teams went out for pizza together. McNeal's take on his meaningful missed shots: "I did it for the guy who lost his mom ... it was the right thing to do."
(If you're the type who cried at the end of "Rudy," you should probably go grab the Kleenex now.)
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Amazing Rescues
Jesús García Corona was a Mexican railroad engineer who was killed trying to keep a train loaded with dynamite from exploding near Nacozari de García, Sonora, in 1907. García drove the train at full-steam six kilometers out of the town before the dynamite exploded, killing him and 12 other railwaymen and bystanders, but sparing the population of the mining town.
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Prinsendam Rescue A fire broke out on the Dutch cruise vessel Prinsendam off Ketchikan, Alaska on 4 October 1980. The Prinsendam was 130 miles from the nearest airstrip. The cruise ship's captain ordered the ship abandoned and the passengers, many elderly, left the ship in the lifeboats. Coast Guard and Canadian helicopters and the cutters Boutwell, Mellon, and Woodrush responded in concert with other vessels in the area. The passenger vessel later capsized and sank. The rescue is particularly important because of the distance traveled by the rescuers, the coordination of independent organizations and the fact that all 520 passengers and crew and crew were rescued without loss of life or serious injury.
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Coast Guard's Hurricane Katrina effort Search and rescue operations alone saved 24,135 lives from imminent danger, usually off the roofs of the victims' homes as flood waters lapped at their feet. Coast Guardsmen "evacuated to safety" 9,409 patients from local hospitals. In total, 33,545 souls were saved. Seventy-six Coast Guard and Coast Guard Auxiliary aircraft took part in the rescues. They flew 1,817 sorties with a total flight time of 4,291.3 hours in the air. The air crews saved 12,535. A total of 42 cutters and 131 small boats also participated, with their crews rescuing 21,200. Over 5,000 Coast Guardsmen served in Katrina operations.
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During WWII, US airmen protected by Yugoslavian peasants for 66 days before they could be airlifted.
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Dolphins rescue whales ...
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Columbian military dupes Farc rebels and rescues 15 hostages ...
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Man saves convulsing man from being run over by subway train ...
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Firefighters rescue a man from the edge of Niagara Falls ...
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Sunday 22 February
By jobruce
Mothers of both boys can be proud of the sons they raised.
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Monday 23 February
By Bill
It to bad kids have to grow up to be adults. Sometimes kids act more careing to each other than adult do.
Sunday 22 February
By James
i have so much respect for that kid
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Sunday 22 February
By Julie
If high school aged young men can behave like this, why can't all adults? This is a great, feel good story.
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Sunday 22 February
By Carole
Julie, you are absolutely right. A lesson for all by these young men. Congratulations to the parents, coaches, mentors and friends of this "total package" of a young man. Well done!
Sunday 22 February
By Christopher
TOTAL CLASS by the young man who missed the shots.He WILL be rewarded down the road,GOD SEE'S EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Hold your head high and know you did the RIGHT THING!!!!!
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Sunday 22 February
By lynn
why would you call it a 'misfortune' for being at your mother's bedside when she dies??!? What a true misfortune it would have been, had he already been at the game, and found she had passed away while he was gone. This young man sadly had to see his mother go, but was truly blessed to have been there with her. And, she was blessed having him there!
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Sunday 22 February
By Jenn
Way to look at the article negatively Im pretty sure the writer was talking about the misfortune of this kid being in high school and witnessing the heartbreaking reality of his mother dying before she had a chance to see him become an adult.
Sunday 22 February
By donthogtheremote
lynn.. yeah, um...you completely misunderstood that line.
the author wasn't describing being at his mother's bedside as a misfortune as opposed to being in the game instead. it was a misfortune for having to be at his mother's bedside PERIOD.
reading comprehension. might wanna look into it.
Sunday 22 February
By Rick Burdette
In a world that only rewards winning at all costs this young man sought something more valuable, as did his coaches
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Sunday 22 February
By Jim
SOME CLASS ACTS ARE EXTREMELY HARD TO FOLLOW.
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Sunday 22 February
By Tim
Heart warming story. I would be very proud to be either of the young men's parent. God does see, and he will bless these young men.
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Sunday 22 February
By peterfurlan
BRAVO
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Sunday 22 February
By lee
This man, is a credit to humanity, who unfortunately will never be a politician. His moral worth is to strong to ever sink that low.
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Sunday 22 February
By Richard
How true Lee, it is true that most people in the country agree with you. It is ashame that we feel like this about the people that govern us, but they are low class. Not like this young man, who has more class then elected officials of the federal government.
Sunday 22 February
By peterfurlan
BRAVO
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Sunday 22 February
By Michael
Try this one from NJ. Last game of youth basketball season; team 1, with no wins, had to play team 2, at top of league. Coach of team 2 started his reserves and used his starters sparingly (league rule said they had to be given playing time). Coach handled it so well that team 1 got its only win of the season. Happened many years ago.
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Sunday 22 February
By tojo
Lets hope this great example of sportsmanship will rub off on the rest of the kids.
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Sunday 22 February
By rayg
first time I have ever commented maybe these guys need to go to the US Senate and teach them a lesson in getting it done the right way GGREAT YOUNG MEN!!!
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Sunday 22 February
By Patty
KUDOS to the teams, the parents and the coaches for teaching these young men so well. You are all to be commended.
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