Gentlemen, our "I need some space" requests are finally starting to be heard. Various magazines, talk shows and women's sites seem to be embracing the idea that man caves can be integral to a healthy relationship.As the blog MomLogic observes:
"Some couples actually swear by the "mantuary," saying it cuts down on bickering. Could it be because men are innately territorial and have a deep-seated need to claim their own space? Hey, it beats arguing over when he's going to get rid of the tattered, stained, brown leather La-Z-Boy chair in the living room."
Whether your mantuary is a game room, tricked-out garage or backyard shed, it's time to strike while the iron is hot. Let your girl know that you care and want to preserve the sanctity of your bond by building out the dopest man space money can buy (or joint checking account can afford). She needs to know that love can truly last, as long as you have ample room to clear your mind, have a drink and/or cigar, and play some Xbox 360.
Before you call the architect, we rounded up some picks of incredible rock-star pads and awesome man caves in the galleries below. Aim high and save that relationship.
Man Cave or Mantuary
Vegas Game Room
Bring the cheap look and gambling obsession back home with your slots man cave. Not that we don't love pinball, but that rug is enough to keep us far away.
mancavemarket.com
Gun library
Some guys are most comfortable surrounded by the books in their library, and others prefer the safety of large piles of weapons. Pull up a chair and enjoy the Second Amendment. The outer door leading in is a bank vault door.
codenameinsight.com
Car Cave
Aside from the obvious space for 2 sports cars, this basement features a programmable AV system for entertainment in any room of the house. The cave has a card room, and the sunken garage doubles as a dance floor.
connectedhome.com
$6 Million Home Theater
There are 16 subwoofers and the largest screen you'll find outside a movie theater (18x10 feet), all for six-million dollars. Front and center, right in front of the couches is a model of Captain Nemo's Nautilus.
audiovideointeriors.com
Ultimate Basement
Four TVs, air hockey and pool, dozens of great framed sports photos, hardwood floors and brick walls: easily the best room in the house.
mancavemarket.com
Patch Museum
This model hobbyist has decorated the cave with a library of patches. Boy scout maybe?
besiegerofcities, flickr.com
Basement Lounge
All you need is a karaoke machine to complete this lounge experience. Boldest move here: bar stools with pink seats.
killingtime.com
Stalking Heads
Maybe your man cave will be simplicity itself: knotty pine walls to approximate the hunting cabin, a computer, desk and a whole load of dead critters.
mancavesite.com
Secret Room
Forget the man cave in the garage or basement: When looking for a new home, ask for one with a secret room. This Arizona home has a staircase to the master bedroom which also pops up to reveal a hidden room, where the owners have chosen to keep their china set and a mummy's coffin.
nytimes.com
Indoor-Outdoor
In the beginning, there was man. And then there was man cave. The classified ad might read, "Free fridge and sofa chair. Needs work. And decontamination."
nkerns,flickr.com
Live Like A Rock Star
Maroon 5 crooner Adam Levine spared no expense to develop a quiet storm of beige and cream accented with glass walls and a private pool looking over L.A.
realstalker.com
You always wanted to know where Sting got all freaky and tantric. Oh, you didn't? Well, now you do. If Roxanne took off her red dress here, she'd never find it again.
templeofsting.com
International pop star Robbie Williams bought this Wiltshire estate in England's "UFO country" either to watch flying saucers or give the rest of his former bandmates from Take That somewhere to live.
thisisbristol.co.uk
Bad Religion guitarist Brett Gurewitz obviously wanted the take all of the comforts of the road back home, so he made his walk-in closet feel like a backstage dressing room.
dailyswarm.com
The Paramour is a Silver Lake, Calif., villa and was home for the wannabes in two seasons of the "Rock Star" reality show. Papa Roach rented the space to record "The Paramour Sessions."
amazon.com
Ozzy Osbourne's mansion is only a little bit goth -- there isn't even a supply of fresh but delicious bats to munch on.
dailymail.co.uk
Lenny Kravitz is not only a talented musician, he's apparently got the knack for building the perfect sex lair. Aside from the practical, leather-covered bar and mirrored tunnel, there's a recording studio.
Luxist.com
Here's a dilemma: Fray singer Isaac Slade wasn't sure if he wanted to inherit this $15 million, 150-acre British estate from a long-lost relative.
hotmusicbeat.com
Featured in Interior Design magazine, Kanye West's place is meant to look like a combination of a pop art museum and a tidy candy store.
interior design
Guitarist/porn producer Dave Navarro knows you don't need more in your kitchen than chrome fixtures and a nice skull.
latimes.com



























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Friday 24 April
By WEMO
Only in California. When do they invent the "Dumasstuary!"
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Friday 24 April
By Squiggles
I'm female, and even I have to admit that man caves are great, simply for the sake of keeping that battered sofa that he can't separate from and tons of electronic equipment out of the living room. I don't know why, but men seem to perpetually stay in the college dorm room type of style -not what I want guests to see when they step into the house!
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Saturday 25 April
By Kat
In our house i am the one who wants space and time alone.
I am in the process of making the Bat-woman cave.
I need somewhere to get away from my hubby his messes and his constant talking about sh-- that doesn't amount to a hill of beans.
Is this role reversal? Probably so.
Friday 24 April
By Mrs. B
My husband and I have been married for 25 years. He and I have always had our own "CAVE". So this is nothing new. And it works!
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Friday 24 April
By Skylarstar
There you go again AOL -- turning everything into a stupid stereotype. As a female, I crave my sanctuary and solitude. As Virginia Wolf wrote, every woman needs a room to call her own.
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Friday 24 April
By chris
and where is the woman-cave - I would have loved to have had that.
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Saturday 25 April
By Patrice
husbands have a room, wives have the house
Friday 24 April
By amber
I'm a believer. Just added a game room in a portion of our garage and it's great. He can have all his junk out, have friends over, be relaxed and free from nagging. I get the rest of the house. Plus it's soundproofed so I don't even have to hear the fun. Should have done this years ago!
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Friday 24 April
By Kat
Yep. Gotta have your own rooms, both of you. Not just for ratty furniture, but to get away when you need space. And everybody needs space.
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Friday 24 April
By Ann
My boyfriend and I just bought a home together and it had to have a den with a set of doors! He wants to decorated it in College Colors of Greena and Orange and that fine! I can shut the doors, our friends and family walk in, walk past the ManCave, and think our home is beautiful! He can watch hours of "that 70's Show and 2 1/2 men, and I can watch all my favorite old movies....we are both happy!
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Friday 24 April
By Laurie
Chris- the rest of the whole house is our woman-cave lol Let the man have his space...
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Saturday 25 April
By Janey
Laurie,
As long as he never sets foot in our "woman-cave" space in the home, and I mean never, I agree with you. The whole house, nirvana.
Friday 24 April
By Mark Hartle
I have been married 39 years come this June. I have always had my own man cave it is called the garage. I have all a man could want in there all kinds of toys every kind of tool and gaget you can imagine including a beer keg cooler and cable TV. Yea, it is even heated and cooled.
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Saturday 25 April
By Dori
My husband also has his "garage space", w/ all the extras! He opens up the big garage door (no, no not the one going to the house) can see the whole neighborhood from the couch, it's not even a crappy, beat up one. All I do, is bring lunch, whatever, and he's happy..it's his time & also mine so I can get my work done, before I go to work.
Friday 24 April
By Mark
I have been married 39 yheas this June. I ahve always had my own man cave it is called the garage. It is great It is heated and cooled with a beer dispenser every kinf oe electric and air tool you can imagine even satillite TV.
Let's hear it for man caves
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Friday 24 April
By Linda
I've been married for 18 years and if it wasn't for making sure hubby had somewhere to be a pig and where I didn't have to worry that he would destroy something or bother me for anything I would have never stuck it out this long. The more often I can get him to go away the happier I am :)
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Saturday 25 April
By suzanne
My Hub took over the detached garage when we bought our home and named it "The Regal Beagle" after the show Three's Company. He has his TV, pac man, donkey kong, and pool table out there. Every night he comes home and hangs out in the Beagle for a good 30-60 minutes to decompress from work and chill out. He loves it! It makes him happy. Everyone needs their space. The only downside is that I have NO STORAGE!
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Saturday 25 April
By phil
Try Mancavesite.org.
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Saturday 25 April
By Doug
For all you women who crave a womancave just rember that you have the kitchen and if we are in our mancave yours will be empty so make us some snacks and dinner while you are in there. That is what will make a happy and healthy marriage.
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Saturday 25 April
By ERIC
I have a very ugly hobby to a wife...restoring old pinball machines and video games. Wife and I would fight ALL the time about them until the light came down from the sky and gleamed onto a cheap house not so far away. Bingo! Problem solved. The 780sqf house is perfect and my wife and I now just plain happy! It is called my "MAN HOUSE" to keep all my games and parts to repair the games with.
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