Gentlemen, our "I need some space" requests are finally starting to be heard. Various magazines, talk shows and women's sites seem to be embracing the idea that man caves can be integral to a healthy relationship.As the blog MomLogic observes:
"Some couples actually swear by the "mantuary," saying it cuts down on bickering. Could it be because men are innately territorial and have a deep-seated need to claim their own space? Hey, it beats arguing over when he's going to get rid of the tattered, stained, brown leather La-Z-Boy chair in the living room."
Whether your mantuary is a game room, tricked-out garage or backyard shed, it's time to strike while the iron is hot. Let your girl know that you care and want to preserve the sanctity of your bond by building out the dopest man space money can buy (or joint checking account can afford). She needs to know that love can truly last, as long as you have ample room to clear your mind, have a drink and/or cigar, and play some Xbox 360.
Before you call the architect, we rounded up some picks of incredible rock-star pads and awesome man caves in the galleries below. Aim high and save that relationship.
Man Cave or Mantuary
Vegas Game Room
Bring the cheap look and gambling obsession back home with your slots man cave. Not that we don't love pinball, but that rug is enough to keep us far away.
mancavemarket.com
Gun library
Some guys are most comfortable surrounded by the books in their library, and others prefer the safety of large piles of weapons. Pull up a chair and enjoy the Second Amendment. The outer door leading in is a bank vault door.
codenameinsight.com
Car Cave
Aside from the obvious space for 2 sports cars, this basement features a programmable AV system for entertainment in any room of the house. The cave has a card room, and the sunken garage doubles as a dance floor.
connectedhome.com
$6 Million Home Theater
There are 16 subwoofers and the largest screen you'll find outside a movie theater (18x10 feet), all for six-million dollars. Front and center, right in front of the couches is a model of Captain Nemo's Nautilus.
audiovideointeriors.com
Ultimate Basement
Four TVs, air hockey and pool, dozens of great framed sports photos, hardwood floors and brick walls: easily the best room in the house.
mancavemarket.com
Patch Museum
This model hobbyist has decorated the cave with a library of patches. Boy scout maybe?
besiegerofcities, flickr.com
Basement Lounge
All you need is a karaoke machine to complete this lounge experience. Boldest move here: bar stools with pink seats.
killingtime.com
Stalking Heads
Maybe your man cave will be simplicity itself: knotty pine walls to approximate the hunting cabin, a computer, desk and a whole load of dead critters.
mancavesite.com
Secret Room
Forget the man cave in the garage or basement: When looking for a new home, ask for one with a secret room. This Arizona home has a staircase to the master bedroom which also pops up to reveal a hidden room, where the owners have chosen to keep their china set and a mummy's coffin.
nytimes.com
Indoor-Outdoor
In the beginning, there was man. And then there was man cave. The classified ad might read, "Free fridge and sofa chair. Needs work. And decontamination."
nkerns,flickr.com
Live Like A Rock Star
Maroon 5 crooner Adam Levine spared no expense to develop a quiet storm of beige and cream accented with glass walls and a private pool looking over L.A.
realstalker.com
You always wanted to know where Sting got all freaky and tantric. Oh, you didn't? Well, now you do. If Roxanne took off her red dress here, she'd never find it again.
templeofsting.com
International pop star Robbie Williams bought this Wiltshire estate in England's "UFO country" either to watch flying saucers or give the rest of his former bandmates from Take That somewhere to live.
thisisbristol.co.uk
Bad Religion guitarist Brett Gurewitz obviously wanted the take all of the comforts of the road back home, so he made his walk-in closet feel like a backstage dressing room.
dailyswarm.com
The Paramour is a Silver Lake, Calif., villa and was home for the wannabes in two seasons of the "Rock Star" reality show. Papa Roach rented the space to record "The Paramour Sessions."
amazon.com
Ozzy Osbourne's mansion is only a little bit goth -- there isn't even a supply of fresh but delicious bats to munch on.
dailymail.co.uk
Lenny Kravitz is not only a talented musician, he's apparently got the knack for building the perfect sex lair. Aside from the practical, leather-covered bar and mirrored tunnel, there's a recording studio.
Luxist.com
Here's a dilemma: Fray singer Isaac Slade wasn't sure if he wanted to inherit this $15 million, 150-acre British estate from a long-lost relative.
hotmusicbeat.com
Featured in Interior Design magazine, Kanye West's place is meant to look like a combination of a pop art museum and a tidy candy store.
interior design
Guitarist/porn producer Dave Navarro knows you don't need more in your kitchen than chrome fixtures and a nice skull.
latimes.com


























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Saturday 25 April
By ERIC
I have a very ugly hobby to a wife...restoring old pinball machines and video games. Wife and I would fight ALL the time about them until the light came down from the sky and gleamed onto a cheap house not so far away. Bingo! Problem solved. The 780sqf house is perfect and my wife and I now just plain happy! It is called my "MAN HOUSE" to keep all my games and parts to repair the games with.
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Saturday 25 April
By Ann
They did one of these on a TV conversion recently. It really looked nice, had the bar, fireplace even a john for men only. Hey whatever makes them happy, right?
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Saturday 25 April
By Wofman
I HAVE THE GREATEST MAN CAVE IN THE WORLD MY 4 CAR GARAGE. I EVEN SLEEP WITH MY TOOLS AND IN MY CARS AND WHEN I GET UP I FEEL GREAT. MY WIFE SAYS I AM SICK BUT I THINK SHE IS JUST JEALOUS.
THE WOLFMAN
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Saturday 25 April
By richard
Bought a home in 1991, the first thing I did was convert the 'family room' into my 'racing room'. Now I can watch my NASCAR or SPEED or anything else without my wife wishing to watch lifetime or food network. All my collectible stuff ends up in MY room, and she can decorate the rest of the house any way she wants.
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Saturday 25 April
By ana
This is probably a good idea to us since my husband loves to leave his book everywhere in the house. My husband hobby is very odd. He collects military vehicles, and he loves to research things. Every time he leaves for work in the morning, I have to pick-up after him. I feel like there is no end. Luckily I don’t work, so I don’t mind, but this habit has to changed if I start working. Thanks for the idea guys…
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Saturday 25 April
By Katzeye
This is so true! My husband has 2 man rooms! One is the garage, where he has a radio with all the hook ups, TV, books and pictures of my younger days! He also has the patio. It to has a radio, TV, and all his plants. I'll once in a blue moon will go out and sit with him on the patio. He even has a chair out there for me! But I have to say, I have often dreamed of haveing my own bedroom. I know this may sound bad, but I want my own bed! Closet, bathroom. And I can even have a spot for him once in a blue moon!!! Yes, I would like that very much.
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Saturday 25 April
By lapislazulijumi
Actually, people are saying that having your own bedrooms is one of the other secrets to a longer lasting marriage. Especially if both parties have pretty different sleeping habits (which is what usually makes people want that). Lots of houses these days are now being designed with that in mind; the whole 'master bedroom' mindset's becoming a thing of the past.
Guess the "mancave" is just one more step in that direction of folks realizing marriage doesn't mean glued to one another 24/7.
Saturday 25 April
By Da'Buttweet
Man-Cave? The garage/workshop has long been the domain of men around the world. However, my love and I have stumbled upon an even better arrangement. Please note that we remain totally dedicated to one another and nothing could seperate our commitment to one another. We each have our own home.....2 bedrooms, one bath each. We live exactly 1.2 miles (a healthy walking distance) apart and share household duties, meals and down-time together.
But there are NEVER any arguments regarding decorating or usage of space...no arguing over what to watch on t.v......to stepping on each others toes regarding having "our" friends over, no arguing about how to spend time or money...no "breathing each others air". WE ARE TOGETHER BECAUSE WE WANT TO BE!!!!!!!!! and we each reign supreme over our own domain. Instead of one large house, and relegating either to a specified square footage, two small one's is the way to go. Total freedom, total togetherness.
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Saturday 25 April
By larry
Then Why be married? sounds more like dating.
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Saturday 25 April
By ry, music room, tv room or what ever else
I have said for the past 30 years that there should be separate dens...one for her and one for him. Each can be an office, library, music room, tv room, yoga or meditation room...what ever each wants their space to be. So separate bedrooms be damned.....it's separate dens that make it work.
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Saturday 25 April
By Deb
One's own space is good, but only insofar as a marriage/partnership is always separate. My EX had a huge cave and that's where he lived - alone. The television was my "other woman". For him it was easier to escape the bickering totally and never deal with anything. Personal space is good but together space is way better.
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Saturday 25 April
By frank
In olden days (although we did have fire and the wheel) that used to be called the garage. Before planned obsolescence was perfected, men used to hang out in the garage, repairing every from toasters and lamps to lawn mowers and automobiles. Now, almost everything worthy of repair has to be turned over to a trained professional or simply thrown away, because, by design, it cannot be repaired. You need a mancave? Build yourself a work shop, find something your wife can't do,and has no interest in. You'll be left alone but have something to show for your time. Call it productive solitude.
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Saturday 25 April
By L.A.
My husband has his man cave. Part office, part display place for his " toys" ( yes, toys from the 60's - hundreds of them), part studio ( he's an artist) and ALL his! The door locks from the inside and the outside. He takes 2 of the dogs in there with him and shuts the world out.
When he is snug in his cave I have peace and quiet as well. Many a fight has been avoided because he has a place to go, still in the house but ALL his.
If the door is open I knock before going in. If the door is closed and I really need him I call his cell.
It's about respect and knowing we all need space and time to reflect, relax or simply play on our on.
I love my husband to death and it stays that way thanks to his cave!!
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Saturday 25 April
By Shannon
My wonderful husband of 12 years built a room (17x20) just for me as a surprise after we bought our home. At first I thought it was for his man-cave, which I thought was a good idea, but he presented it to me when it was done. I work grueling 12 hour days as a chef and he knows when I come home I need 30 minutes of serious decompression time: no noise, no people, no decision making. Just quiet. My room has no clocks, mirrors, tv, radio; nothing that makes noise. It's a sanctuary for me. He works banker's hours and says his cave is the garage . It works for us and we're VERY happy.
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Saturday 25 April
By Tammy
Both husband and wife need their space. The house as a whole is for both to utilize, then each person has their own pace to be left alone and do their own thing. This idea of the man geting his space and the woman getting the house is set in the '50's. And as for the woman wanting the house to look nice, that's not always true. I don't care what anyone else thinks of my house. I just want a room of my own where I won't be bothered by anyone. My husband wants the same thing. And I sure don't provide him lunch when he's in his area, lunch is hsi own problem.
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Saturday 25 April
By Valerie
I've been married 24 years and yes the "Man Cave" works. But I also have MY space as well. My hubby has his den w/ big screen tv, a PC plus a laptop and our 17 and 19 yr old boys hang with him watching sports, watching movies and or playing one of their many gaming systems. Hubby gets to act like a kid and hang with his kids at the same time. I have my den at the opposite end of the house. I have my tv w/ cable and my own PC. It's great!! But we take it a step further. I have my bedroom/bathroom and he has his. That way we both get sleep when we need it and we don't have to wait for the bathroom when we needed. I don't have to listen to snoring or gassing and he doesn't get woke up if I am going up and down cause I can't sleep or won't to watch tv in bed which he doesn't like. I like it really cold in my rooms, he likes it hot in his. Really works out great!! My father's parent and my mother's parents both had their own bedrooms as well and my father's dad had his own den and his mother had her own room she used for watching tv, reading and sewing/crafts. Both sets of grandparents were married more than 50 years and only death seperated them. Just cause your married and live in same house, doesn't mean you have to be up each other's butts 24/7. There has to be time apart even in the house.
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Saturday 25 April
By Valerie
Hubby and I have been married 24 years. It's worked because not only do we both have our own "CAVES" but we both have our own bedrooms/bathrooms. His man cave is at one end of the house, my cave is at the other end of the house. We both have cable and our own PC's so we can go online and watch tv and not have to worry about what the other wants.
Having seperate bedrooms/bathrooms is great too. I don't have to worry about the snoring, gas and tossing and turning. He doesn't have to get mad I'm watching tv in bed late at night. He likes his rooms hot, I like mine extremly cold. I don't have to wake up and go to the bathroom and fallin cause he left the seat up. He doesn't have to wait to use the bathroom cause I'm in the tub soaking.
My mom and dad's parents both had their own bedrooms and both sets of grandparents had their own "caves" as well. Both grandmother's had their tv/sewing rooms and my grandfathers had their den's and garages. Both set of grandparents were married more than 50 years and only death seperated them.
Marraige doesn't mean you have to be up someone butt 24/7. Just cause your married doesn't mean you have to be in same room constantly watching same thing, doing the same thing or even sleep at same time in same room. Really, having the space apart inside the home keeps you together. Your not getting annoyed with each other, you don't start nitpicking each other and each other's bad habits then start getting really annoying which leads to fighting. Spsce = Great Marriage.
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Saturday 25 April
By idkyi8JeLLy
my dad cant part from his man-cave, and its actually the reason of my parents' bickering.
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Thursday 30 April
By Dudley
You can't say "The woman has the whole house to herself and doesn't need a woman cave" when there are kids involved. When you have kids, THEY take control of the house and unless you are rich OR live in a state that has really low taxes and can afford a house with a LOT of bedrooms, that isn't possible. Man caves don't help marriages, but overcoming your selfish desires and learning to SHARE will help.
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Thursday 09 July
By robyn
in our place the man cave is the whole house because he is so piggy/untidy. main places he stays is the garage where the computer is and the bedroom - we watch tv separately because we watch different programs.
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