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AskMen.com has scoured the very depths of the Internet and churned up results for their 2009 Great Male Survey. Among the typical fare like "Which Jonas Brother is your favorite?" the question was asked, "Have you ever fantasized about a girlfriend's/wife's friend?"
The answer breakdown is as follows:
43 percent - Yes, I have in the past but try to restrain myself from doing so
26 percent - Yes, I fantasize about her friends regularly
23 percent - No, I have no interest in any of her friends.
8 percent - No, but I have to restrain myself from doing so.
We get the predictable yes and no answers, but what's up with all these guys trying to censor their sexy thoughts? We can appreciate a guy feeling guilty about having an unfaithful fantasy, but it is simply a fantasy after all. Apparently, over half of men are like fantasy wolfmen, panicking as the full moon approaches and desperate to be locked away.
More perplexing are the guys who don't fantasize but still restrain themselves, effectively stopping them from thinking something without thinking it. Is that even possible?
Jul 23rd 2009 By Ian Fortey
Is It OK to Fantasize About Your Girlfriend's Friends?
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Thursday 23 July
By Heavytoka
Yes, Fantasies are natural. Now Acting upon them is a different story lol
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Friday 24 July
By Steve-a-rino
The best trick of all is to learn how to fantasize AND keep it to yourself. EVERY man alive sees a pretty girl and, at least fleetingly, wonders what it would be like to possess her. It's normal, it's pleasurable and it's harmless. If every fantasy were acted upon we wouldn't have time for work, sleep or anything else! Just imagine, enjoy and keep your mouth shut about it!
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Friday 24 July
By Whose Mind Is It, Anyway?
What a dumb question! Of COURSE it's okay to fantasize about whatever you might wish - your spouse's friends of either gender or no gender, her enemies, whips, latex body suits, spike heels, cotton candy, ninja-turtles, spagetti-os, or whatever else turns you on. It's YOUR brain, fer cryin' out loud, the very last bastion of your personal privacy. Do what you wish with it.
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Saturday 25 July
By XoTheJesteroX
Amen. Best comment here.
-TheeJester
Monday 27 July
By TerminalStare
spagetti-os, all right Twist my arm .. I'll try it...
Friday 24 July
By doc
my wifes creepy freinds? eewwwww, NO!
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Saturday 25 July
By mike
Fantasy is the first step to acting out....continual fantasy builds neural paths (like greasing the rails) and makes it more likely, in the right situation, you will act out.....
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Wednesday 29 July
By next777
nobody beleives in GOD anymore?what a moral decline.
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Monday 27 July
By nobody
you must be a nun in a convent secluded from the world...
Monday 27 July
By Kristen
Why would she have to be a nun? Because she believes in something other than sex? I didn't know this until a few days ago, but if you do have these fantasies and they star anybody but your husband or wife, it is adultary in God's eyes because the unfaithfulness is in your heart. He knows what we think about. He knows what I'm writing. Fantasy is adultary...
Tuesday 28 July
By sw30094
Says the one on their way to Hell!
Saturday 25 July
By Rick
Get over it ladies, men are not built for monogamy. If they care to practice monogomy (monotony?) it takes a lot of effort. Thought control is part of the effort. If I start thinking I want a cigarette, eventually I'll start smoking again. Same thing.
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Monday 27 July
By Jenn
I suppose you think women are built for monogamy? Do you guys not realize that women have fantasies about your friends as well.
Monday 27 July
By Eva
It's an attitude like that, that disgusts 90% of women. If you got a girl, congrats, but acting like a dog makes you no better than one. Most women do like a challenge somewhat cause we want to be worth something to our men, but if a man respects his women he doesn't need to go off having sexual fantasies about his girlfriends friends, celebrities, maybe, but not people you see on a daily basis, the desire if there and if she's offering it, you're relationship turns to shit.
Tuesday 28 July
By Jordi
Men aren't built for monogamy?
Way to excuse pervasiveness. Here's a hint- us girls aren't built for monogamy either. We aren't always faithful, we don't always dream of babies in big white houses with our hubby. Fantasies are awesome, roleplaying is awesome, faithfulness is awesome too. Depending on who you are, multiple partners, tons of sex, and failing at monogamy can be awesome. Depends on who you are. Stop classifying women under the ~I just wanna find the one and will never dream about another man, I'm pure and innocent and can't wait to raise teh babehs~
Fuck that.
Sunday 26 July
By Jayne
this is stupid, i hate when people act like men are so much more sexually driven than women. take me, for instance, im a female and when i was with my ex i probably fantasized about every single one of his friends plus his brother (can u blame me? they were all hot lol) and i didnt feel an ounce of guilt cause i knew my boyfriend was probably fantasizing about other women as well. so i didnt bother to censor my fantasies or plan on acting them out either. we all have natural instincts and have adulterous thoughts and get jealous once in a while, theres nothing wrong with it. its human nature.
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Wednesday 23 September
By sdj
AMEN to that! There are lots of women out there who like to have the no strings attached sex!! As long as you are careful about it and the ground rules with your partner are laid out from the beginning, who's it hurting? If you don't want to be in a relationship, then so be it!! Life is to short to not live it to the fullest!!! Male, female..whatever!
Saturday 25 July
By FASurvey
Men are always more sexually driven than women....whatever total BS most of you men couldn't even gather around what most women think of when it comes to sex trust me...and surveys are a waist of time i take them and lie all the time...you go for the question that will make you look better or feel better its just a waste of time....
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Monday 27 July
By JOE
Oh so i take it when you go in the closet and whip out your battery operated toys it's because you think about your spouce so much you have to cause fire hazards over him.
Saturday 25 July
By sam
Hey next777. Who's god are you talking about? You need to open your eyes.
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