As the NFL playoffs kick off, the odds are good that at least a few of the pros fighting for a ticket to the big dance this weekend are gay. Don't believe us? Let's do the math: 4 percent of the U.S. population is gay. There are 53 men on an NFL roster, and 32 teams in the league. That means, statistically speaking, there'd be roughly 68 gay men in the NFL, or a little over two per team. We've found out about a few gay players after they'd already retired, but to this point no currently active NFL player has been publicly out of the closet. We decided to take a look at what it might take to cause the first gay NFL player to come out (aside from being allegedly outed by someone else, as in the case of fullback Ovie Mughelli), when it might happen, and what it could mean.
What It Might Take
Only three NFL players have come out of the closet -- David Kopay in 1975, Roy Simmons in 1992, and Esera Tuaolo in 2002 -- and they all did it after their playing days were behind them. Howard Bragman, a publicist who specializes in helping gay celebrities and athletes come out of the closet (his former clients include Tuaolo and John Amaechi) tells Asylum that he thinks one of two things would have to happen before we see a current player come out.
"Either it'll have to be someone who's caught in a situation where they have to decide if they want the news to hit the tabloids, or if they want to come out on their own terms," Bragman says, "Or it'll be someone who was out before their career started -- some college player who's so good, it doesn't matter."
Are those circumstances due to the locker room homophobia exemplified by the likes of Larry Johnson? Kind of, explains Bragman: "I don't think a current player is going to come out and risk life and limb -- you can get killed out there, if some immature idiot takes a cheap shot -- without some sort of extenuating circumstances."
Furthermore, he says teammates might take it as a reason to be offended under other pretenses: "You'd hear guys complaining -- 'Oh, he wasn't honest with me!' -- but it's a workplace issue. They'd have the right to come out or not."
When It Might Happen
In 2000, Brian Sims was a defensive tackle for Division II NCAA school Bloomberg University, and a team captain. He was also openly gay, perhaps the first college football captain who was. While coming from a small school and being undersized for a tackle -- Sims was 6 feet tall, 240 lbs. -- he didn't have the opportunity to enter the NFL. He told us he thinks that the first out NFL player is playing right now, either at the high school or college level.
"It'll be someone in a skill position -- either a quarterback, a running back, a wide receiver, or maybe a middle linebacker. It'll be someone who's playing at a big-name school, and he'll be openly gay while he's in college," Sims tells Asylum. "There's probably not someone like that currently playing in the NCAA. I'd probably be the person who'd know, and I'm not aware of anyone right now."
But time, Sims stresses, is definitely on the side of it happening sooner, rather than later. "The fact is," he says, "the NFL is comprised mostly of people under the age of 40, and people in that age group, statistically speaking, skew heavily progressive on gay rights issues. Something like 80 percent of young people are progressive there. But if you ask them how they think other people in their age group feel, they only think that about a third of their peers share their belief."
A gay NFL star could help alter the second statistic quickly.
What It Might Mean
"When our coach wanted to motivate us," Sims says, "The thing he'd say to get us to focus on an opposing player was to tell us that, 'This guy's a racist. He said some racist stuff last week.' And we'd go out there looking to stop him." He expects the same thing would happen once the locker room rallied around their gay teammate: "A guy like Larry Johnson would be more of a target."
But would those teammates rally? Sterling Sharpe told HBO's "Real Sports" that if Tuaolo had come out when they played together in Green Bay, "He would have been eaten alive and he would have been hated for it ... He'd have never gotten to the game on Sunday."
Interestingly, however, Sims references another Packers icon when rebutting Sharpe's point: "Vince Lombardi had an older brother who was gay, and he said that he felt that a gay player would have an incredibly strong sense of character. Anyone who had the courage to go through what an out gay player would have to would be an incredibly positive influence on his team."
Bragman agrees that teammates would be likely to back up the player: "I think they'd be shockingly supportive. Of course, other teams and players might not," he's quick to say. He also dismisses the talk of players being uncomfortable showering with a gay teammate. "There's nothing less sexual than an NFL locker room," he insists.
And ultimately, Sims believes that it would come down to a matter of leadership: "When Jackie Robinson joined the Dodgers, Leo Durocher, the manager, stood up for him. The coach is the leader of the team, and players take their cue from him. If the coach says, 'I've recruited a player who's going to help us win,' that'll be important."
Finally, both Bragman and Sims agree that the impact of this first gay player, in terms of the way gay men are perceived, would be immeasurable. The player may become an icon, but Sims says, "How his team responds will further LGBT rights more than anything. The best part would be his teammates. You'd have 50 big athletes, people that kids look up to, saying, 'So what?' They'd have a bigger voice."
That leaves us with one final question: How would the fans react? What would you do if a player whose jersey you owned came out of the closet?


























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Saturday 09 January
By Jim
Being gay is a birth defect. Gays use the fact that they are born that way to try to justify their behavior and receive minority status. Considering that scientists have found that serial killers are also born that way are we now expected to accept their behavior as well?
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Saturday 09 January
By Sandy
Amen...those who are against the Bible will have to face judgment just as Sodom and Gomorrah. Those who yell about judging them, say homophobic, which is a favorite gay word to those who refuse to recognize and accept their immoral sexual sins. They are hypocrits for judging Christians. Romans 1:24-27 is also good about the sins of homosexuality.
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Saturday 09 January
By vosovic
Only 4% of the population is gay but they make up 90% of the news media and 95% of Hollywood so by controlling the media they seem like theyre 104% of the population -- cant believe that they will continue with the "Gay Pride" movement until they have made their birth defect the norm
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Saturday 09 January
By Brink
who cares!
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Saturday 09 January
By Tom
Tam, everything you say is just plain s t u p i d. There are gay people out there, get over it. Do you take everyword in the Bible literally? Do you stone adulters? How about mules, they are a sin you know. Can weave linen and cotton, sin you know. A man must marry his brother's widow, if he doesn't, a sin you know (it is irrelevant whether the man has a current wife, a man could have wives AND concubines you know). Are you getting my drift here? Do you see a trend in your s t u p i d reasoning?
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Wednesday 27 January
By Ant
People kill me always wanting to rationalize that homosexuality shoul'nt be looked at as wrong because we view other things in scrripture in a different light. Sins such as lying, fornication, adutery, idol worshipping in it's many forms, etc.. are all sins that can clearly send your soul to hell but homosexuality is one of those sins that God calls an abomination. That sin that caused GOD to destroy whole cities. SIN is SIN though. They are all the same. But I know one thing. The differnce is Homosexuality is trying to be forced on society as a born inherited trait and not a simple choice in lifestyle. WOW. God did'nt create us in a way to follow him and then make us in a way that is an abomination to him when it's not our fault. At the end of the day you have to answer to GOD just like I do. I prefer to stand before him knowing I did all I can to follow his commands......CHURCH OF CHRIST
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Saturday 09 January
By rick
I hope never. Sick of this BS
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Saturday 09 January
By Mcpogi
Chad Ochohomo?
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Saturday 09 January
By Brenda
I'd be willing to bet that most folks on here who bash someone else wouldn't want the rest of us looking at their dirty little secrets, and you know we all have them ... no one is perfect. Quote the Bible all you want too, but be careful who and how you judge.
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Saturday 09 January
By Jim
that's the whole point. My dirty little secrets are just that "secret". I am not airing them for the whole world to see and trying to force people to accept them as normal behaviors. I also don't air them where innocent children can see. I don't judge gays. I just don't think that behavior should be everywhere my kids are, even school.
Saturday 09 January
By wilbert washington
Yes I agree with the Word of God has to say about sin.But the blood of Jesus wasnt just shed heterosexual but also the homosexual as well.Yet they to must repent and be converted or they must be born again.As long as they live by flesh they tend to those things of the flesh, they be born again renewed with right spirit.Lastly all those who condone such abominations they to shall reap the same punishment as the one who does it.
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Saturday 09 January
By ed
the bible also says that mixing different materials together is an abomination and that if your children disobey that they should be put to death. but we mix cotton and polyester all the time and we certainly dont put our children to death because they dont listen to us. the bible was written by men of wealth and power(ie the churches) to scare and control the masses nothing more when you die there is no heaven or hell just death but if you need something to beleive in to make you feel more sucure about your existance then go for it but you'll be worm food just like everyone else when you die. in todays society we have seen a black man become president which 20 years ago no would have thought possible but for some reason we can't let go of phobia's and sterio tying hell buddy theres a good chance if you have kids that one of them are gay, beleive it or not but being gay is'nt a choice or a life style your born that way.
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Saturday 09 January
By Heidi
It is hypocritical to quote the bible unless you live by every word that it speaks. We shall not judge others. I am so tired of people quoting the bible unless they live by every word of the scriptures. Remember that the bible was written by man.
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Saturday 09 January
By ThinkTank10
Well now, who of you even know the difference between the Old and the New Testiment? Didn't you notice Tam started off with Romans? Hmmmmmmm.... wouldn't that be the New Testiment that all you "christians" are reading? Well now, how about
1 Corinthians? Would that be New testiment? Why, yes it is! And 1 Corinthians 6: 9,10 also say that those who practice such things will not inherit God's kingdom.
But you must notice that it mentions Fornicaters and Adulterers before it mentions homosexuals in the same verse.
God says control yourselves.... ALL of you. So, you got a problem with that? Your choice. He made you, show him some respect.
And Tam, maybe she was just trying to help you, not condemn you. I don't know.... I don't know Tam. Chill people and read who's spewing hate? It's sure not me.
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Saturday 09 January
By hristopher
You, my friend, are a fool
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Saturday 09 January
By Bill t.
maybe the world could give a crap about who is gay. Why is it so important to announce who you bang????? openly gay mayor in texas..who gives a chit!!! openly gay person on the presidents cabinet...who gives a chit!!! first gay here or there...i mean really.the more people make a big deal about who they suck off the more it is going to make the news....
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Saturday 09 January
By RodSquad09
Yes, I was shockwed when Joe Theisman came out of the closet after his sham marriage to Kathy lee Crosby failed.I guess u just never know about these things.
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Saturday 09 January
By Patti
Well one thing is for certain. Their number of viewers and fans would go up, lol. I'm a straight woman, but I can only imagine the stronghold on that player that would be effected by his coming out to the homosexual population. His jerseys would be sold out in a heartbeat.
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Saturday 09 January
By R
Why are you so full of hate? Are you experiencing difficulties in your life that lead you to being in such a negative status? I am hetero and I don't have a problem with people loving each other. I don't think gay people just simply say, "I am going to make my life difficult by going against what's considered to be the majority." Have you considered following the Bible and just simple love and respect life? I've written this full of respect and hope that you and other focus more on the positive than the negative.
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Saturday 09 January
By ptlee223
The Bible does not contradicts itself.. and any of you that have come on here attacking Tam are either Holy Spiritless Christians (which will have a very small understanding of God's word and righteously should not comment), especially against other God fearing and God loving fellow true Christians Believers)..Believers that accept the Word of God as long as it doesn't interfere with their worldly views or lifestyle..Hypocrites (The class of sub-Christians that love to tell others how to live but cannot or will not follow their own teachings or advice themselves. People whom believe that the Bible is out-dated and unfit for these modern times or just do not believe in the Bible period, however pointlessly spending most of their time trying to prove how incorrect it is. People whom either hate God and prefer not to believe in nor to worship the Jewish or traditional Christian preception, ideals or views of Him..or simply don't believe or hate the very thought and existence of God period, and all concepts of Him. But the fact is, if you are a true Disciple of Jesus Christ (Whom is the Only Begotten Son of God)..and if you are filled with the Holy Spirit (or Ghost) then you should be able to Boldly expound (explain, teach rightly or correctly, accurately with a great measure of effectiveness) on every part of God's Word to anyone that is seeking salvation through Christ' by it..However the Word of God is not open for debate and useless arguments..as The Savior Jesus said, it would be like casting ones pearl to the swine..Tam is correct, and is entiled to express an opinion on this subject as anyone else on here..should it matter that Tam's opinion is based on a biblical point of view? That is what Tam believe and I don't see where these these opinions are being forced on anyone else. Isn't everyone rendering their beliefs and opinions on these blogs no matter in what manner they may have formulated them in?
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