Mar 2nd 2010 By Emily McCombs

A Woman's Perspective on Sexual Frequency

Married? Got a girlfriend? In a loving and committed f**kbuddy relationship? Then you're probably having sex, at least some of the time. But how often is often enough? And can you be doing it too much? Let Asylum's token girl advise you on how much sex you should (and shouldn't) be having.

A Woman's Perspective on Sexual Frequency

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Tuesday 02 March

By Bea Arthur

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I hates the post office, unless I'm getting free overnight delivery, holler. Also, cheez-its are delicious.

Tuesday 02 March

By beanie

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you are the best.

Wednesday 03 March

By moondog693

Lowest Rank

Ugh, cover those tats please.

Friday 05 March

By sean

Lowest Ranked

good question for u.i have been seening my girl for 11 years now we have talked about marrige and would like to get get married, but now its different story. past hostory. she had some personal issues she never told me about (stalker) and we growen away from each other. after i found out i though every was said and done. took her ring shopping and at the time she was in awe. now keep in mind i broke with her for 6 months or so seeinganother girl. she knew about all this. now back with her she has changed her mind. this is after the other one. it took me that
long to figer out how i wanted in my life. now i am down to once a week seeing her. it's said when u finally realize what u what out of life. and the mistakes u have made. itell want hef in my life.i still what her in my life life and no body else. only reason i am writing this is because too many know me snd and would confind in someone who did't. and yes there is more to the store...

Wednesday 17 March

By Buzz

Lowest Rank

Ah, yea, we can all tell you really like cheeze-its. . . and a lot of tats too. . . and YOU are going to tell us all on how frequently we should be having sex? Have you been snorting the cheeze-its too? Here's an idea, turn off the computer, put down the bag of cheeze-its and get out side and get some fresh air and exercise. Bet you'll get more sex. . .

Thursday 18 March

By Hypatia

Neutral

I thought this was hilarious. Well done, and I love cheezits too.

Thank you for putting a fresh perspective on sexual frequency. Relationships aren't all about sex, but our society puts so much pressure on making sure that we're "getting enough". To each their own.

Either way, thanks. :)

Tuesday 30 March

By Jason.

Highest Rank

Dear Emily, I just finished watching all of the videos you've posted and am interested in applying for the sex twice a week position. I'm extremely flexible on compensation structure and scheduling. I love Cunalingus and would require at least 30 minutes during each encounter for dedicated box munching.

If the position has been filled perhaps you could answer this question instead: Could you maybe compile a list of generally acceptable synonyms for Vagina, Breasts, and ass? As a dude I've always wondered where to draw the line, especially during intercourse.

-Jason
P.S. Don't mind the email, it's the only Anonymous one I have, I used it to buy and sell WoW accounts back when that was 'big' business.

Thursday 01 April

By anon

Neutral

Together now 10 years (married for most of that)... and twice a week would be heaven, if you're asking me. Ask my wife and she'd say the same. But claims and action are too different things. In reality, it's not nearly as much a priority for her as it is for me... and I've gotten so battered by getting turned down, it's not always easy to find the energy to try to light the fire. We still love each other, but we only have sex about once or twice a month. Kids don't help... it makes us tired. But still, I think it's a priority... I'd even settle for a scheduled night once a week. That kills the spontaneity. But then, so does ambivalence to intimacy.

Monday 07 June

By Cordelia

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you. Emily. are hilarious! I can't believe I've never seen your videos till now. They're awesome!

Monday 04 October

By Madstrgr

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wow twice a week.......I miss that sort of madness....I'm banished to the realm of twice a month, if I've been awesome all month. And she tells her friends that we do it all the time and we do it too much......I'm doomed