In the United States, there are over four million more women than men. And these extra women tend to live in urban areas. So if you don't live out in the sticks, meeting women should be a snap, right?Wrong. Type "how to meet women" into Google, and it spits out over 97 million responses. We've highlighted a bunch of the places "experts" suggest are ripe for finding a potential romantic match. Now we want to know which you think is best.
Read on for a breakdown of each suggestion, and let us know in the comment section any venues brimming with available women that we have missed. (Although we can't blame you if you want to keep that information to yourself.)
| Bars and nightclubs | |
|---|---|
| Social clubs, civic groups, adult education classes | |
| Online | |
| Weddings, birthday parties, etc. | |
| During your daily routine (supermarket, laundromat, etc.) |
Bars
The reason folks go to a bar is to drink, and alcohol happens to be the ultimate social lubricant. So why is it that any examination of where to meet women starts off by stating bars probably aren't the answer?
Oh yeah, because bars generally have unfavorable male-to-female ratios, and sloppy bar hook-ups rarely lead to more than sloppy bar hook-ups. But if you can stay in control and think beyond the immediate future, bars remain a pretty solid place to lay the seeds of a meaningful connection.
Social clubs, civic groups, adult education classes
The same relationship experts who bash bars as places to meet women often suggest trying social gatherings that don't involve alcohol. Theoretically this makes a lot of sense. Our problem? We don't know all that many people who have forged a meaningful romantic relationship at a cooking class or because they volunteered at the local museum.
Online
Everything is more efficient when you do it online, including dating. While the stigma against meeting someone on the Internet is probably a thing of the past, when you meet a woman through an online dating service, you are always going to have the uneasy feeling that you are a few simple clicks away from being replaced.
Family- and friend-endorsed functions
Think weddings, birthday parties, etc. Obviously being in the same extended social circle is a terrific ice breaker. It could get a little uncomfortable though, if things heat up and then fizzle. Especially if you revealed any secrets you don't want out there.
During the minutiae of life
Grocery stores, laundromats and other places that are part of your routine are often tossed out as great venues to meet women. No doubt there is potential there, but if you're suave enough to pick up a chick while waiting in line at Starbucks, you probably don't need much advice on meeting women.
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Tuesday 13 April
By Richard
My views about meeting women is merely the 3-pointer nutshell: "church, job, school" theory. Women are best met in your class, or in your weekly church service or in your daily job.
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Tuesday 13 April
By Joe
you're totally correct. Anywhere is not the best place. Of course you keep it open but if you 30 different jobs, in 90 days, you have a lot of pretty good dates. definately some girl action there. But the same time at 'anywehre' is not going to get you the results. You might get something, but it's like 5000% more likely to hook up at work, or school. The Jobless hobo's all clicked the anywhere button. True.
Wednesday 14 April
By Taz
Where are the top places to meet men?
Tuesday 13 April
By Rick R.
What in the name of __ is this piece of fluff doing on the same AOL news page as the shocking death of the Polish president and his top government officials?
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Tuesday 13 April
By Jim
If you don't like it, tough. I like it.
Tuesday 13 April
By Bubba
That is a tough one--where do you meet women. I think it can be divided up into age and social level. When you get older, the good ones are gone and what is left is many women who have not taken good care of themself and have sexual and maturity hang ups.
Church--I go to church for the religion.
Bars--good luck you never know what you are going to hook up with.
On line is a waste of money--they live too far away unless you are in the same city or area.
Weddings--you already know most of them and they surely know more about you.
Every day is the best--just speak--make eye contact. set in the park or in the mall. But always smile and be a gentleman. You may see 100 women and speak to them but only 4 or 5 will speak back. Remember, if they are in the mall--they have a job and are taking care of themself.
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Tuesday 13 April
By Jim
You are so right. I like the idea of the mall.
Wednesday 14 April
By ralphgmiami
The best dating website is a free one called plenty of fish dot com Marcus, a philantrophist, runs it from a computer out of his house in Seattle. Hey spread the word and more people will go online. I'm not kidding when I say it's totally free.
Tuesday 13 April
By benidom
There are an average of 106 male births to 100 female births. Women live longer so they outnumber men in older age groups. Women also marry men an average of 5 years older. Result is there are 160 single men to every 100 single women in the 20 something category. Unless you are a young guy into dating grandma those millions of "extra" single women are meaningless to your social life. Demographically it's young women that have the advantage. It's fine for old women to complain about a "man shortage" but it does not apply to young women, they have a surplus of men to choose from.
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Tuesday 13 April
By Bud Maxwell
One of the best things we were taught in basic training with the military, after showing us a bunch of VD films,was how to find a decent girl in the town where we were stationed. Simply go to Church. Parents of these young ladies would assume that if a new boy in town was nice enough to attend church, then it was okay for them to date their daughters. Wow, did we ever fool them! LOL
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Tuesday 13 April
By ROGM
It doesn't matter where you meet Women as long as you have MONEY! Money will always attract Women! If there are Women that say they don't care about a Man's Money, they're Lying! LOL!!!!!!!!
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Tuesday 13 April
By Burt
You can meet women anywhere; If you want someone to be able to share a life with then just hang out at all the places that YOU are interested in, like the astronomy club. If a woman likes astronomy she might show up. If you are an alcoholic then pick a bar...simple.A sure fire way is to leave a hundred dollar bill hanging out of your pocket or in your zipper. That always gets their attention. In any case it costs alot of money. Be bold and have sex first just don't get her pregnant! Never be afraid of asking a woman out. That is the main reason why their are so many dating services. No one talks any more and everyone is too picky.
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Tuesday 13 April
By Bill
It's all about karma.
If your Karma "sucks," so will your love life.
Good Luck Dudes!
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Tuesday 13 April
By AGe
It amazes me that in a country of three hundred million people, there are so many lonely ones out there. Why can't people find a life partner. I think it's because we are so focused on perfection. Women have to be beautiful and thin. Men have to have a good job and income. I know chemistry and physical attraction are very important but when a size 8 woman is considered plus size that attitude can lead to impossible standards. The same goes for men. They need to be tall with six pack abs and a nice car and high income. The standards for this generation are so high almost nobody can meet them. Yet the people who are judging others aren't perfect either. Everyone is living in a fantasy.
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Tuesday 13 April
By Paul
I just sit at the end of the bar licking my eyebrows and let the women come to me...
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Tuesday 13 April
By Daryl
No wonder there are so many Lesbo's running around.....There isn't enough to go around for them all.....Poor lesbo's, what is wrong with you? Don't you know that isn't natural behavoir......Far as the best place to meet women, it depends on what your looking for in my view...If your looking to get laid and that's it, then you probably don't want to goto the Library or church or something like that....If your looking for a serious thing then the Bar or online hookup may not be the way to go...Bottom line is you can meet women anywhere, just open your mouth and let it out, they can only say "Yes", or "No".
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Wednesday 14 April
By kate
I just read an interesting article on why women are turning to other women for relationships including sex. It's because men fail women so badly as intimate partners, supportive and sexual partners.
Tuesday 13 April
By Andrew
So what are you doing looking here. for a replacement for the job.
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Wednesday 14 April
By Rob in Oregon
Some of the really nicest women out there are looking for a man with strong Christian values. No, they're not going to hop into bed with you on the first date, but aren't you looking for something permanent? Christian women are more willing to love and give of themselves than secular women, secular girls are mostly concerned with their own rights and self-fulfillment. I married a nice Christian woman, and just yesterday we celebrated our 30th anniversary! It really can work...
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Wednesday 14 April
By Rudy
Hey Rob in oregon. Sorry to say but christian women are hobbly horny in my experience. No idea why. It might be because secular girls are way overeducated and as a result, very complex. Thank god for christianity!