Shyness negatively affects the quality of relationships -- even marriages.Researchers at the University of Tennessee recently found that shy people have more severe marital problems during their newlywed period when compared to their more outgoing counterparts. More specifically, the shy reported a higher percentage of struggles with their partners over trust, jealously, money and household management.
As a marriage progresses, the researchers discovered that shyness continued to be linked to problems. They were able to conclude that one person's innate reservedness -- not the fact that difficulties early in the marriage had made the couple less communicative -- is typically driving these continuing struggles.
The study's authors believe the higher levels of social anxiety that go with being shy leaves a less-outgoing person unable to deal with marital problems head-on.
They may struggle at sharing their life with their spouse, but shy people are still the best kind of people to share space with on any form of public transportation.


























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Thursday 20 May
By Shirley
Shouldn't the title be "......Affects..."? Check your grammar before publishing articles.
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Thursday 20 May
By Greg
Sort of makes you doubt everything after that doesn't it?
Thursday 20 May
By Maryann Yoo
effects is correct
Thursday 20 May
By Curt
Maryann, you need to go back to school.
Thursday 20 May
By IPD
Reply to Shirley: The word "affects" would be correct only if the title read: "The Negative Affects Of Marrage." As "affects" constitute certain psychological aspects of emotions.
Friday 21 May
By Aron
I'm glad someone else caught that too! Hey AOL? Isn't grammar check a prerequisite for your articles?
Friday 21 May
By DAUGHTER OF AN ENGLISH MAJOR
An affect is a noun. To effect something is a verb.
Friday 21 May
By LuAnn
the title does read affects!
Friday 21 May
By rocko
wait, what?
Friday 21 May
By Len
There's medication for your obsessive compulsive disorder.
Friday 21 May
By adam
So people who are shy shouldnt get married? That instills confidence lol.
Thursday 20 May
By Curt
Just to clarify, Maryann, affect is a verb, effect is a noun. A noun can't show an "effect" on another noun. ie: affect a marriage vs effect a marriage.
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Friday 21 May
By MSM
You are correct that in common usage, "effect" is a noun and
"affect" is a verb. The title should have "affects."
However, as IPD points out, in psychology jargon,
"affect" is a noun meaning an emotion or mood as a factor in
behavior.
Also, "effect" is also a transitive verb meaning to accomplish/
to bring about/to produce as a result.
"The new advertising campaign effected higher sales."
Or, I suppose, "The wedding ceremony effected the marriage."
Thursday 20 May
By Rebecca
severe martial problems? do you mean marital or are the feds coming after shy people who are newlyweds?
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Friday 21 May
By Jeannie
Rebecca
LOL Good catch!!
Thursday 20 May
By IPD
Shirley and Curt are wrong. Maryann is correct. In the title, "effects" is properly used in trhe title.
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Thursday 20 May
By ROGM
Just one of the many reasons why Marriage SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Thursday 20 May
By Rene
"Shyness negatively EFFECTS the quality of relationships . . ."
This is clearly an error!!!
The word should be spelled with an 'a' - AFFECTS - since it is used as a verb (action word) and not as a noun, which would then be spelled with an 'e' - EFFECT.
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Friday 21 May
By Curt
Good job, Rene. You put it so much more eloquently than I.
Thursday 20 May
By creilly
The word is supposed to be "affect", not "effect".
"Shyness negatively affects marriage". Miriam Webster: Affect- to produce an effect upon, to influence.
Please treat our language with a little more respect. Get an EDUCATED proof reader.
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