Cotter tells Asylum that his wife of 12 years left him at the end of last year -- taking everything but her wedding dress when she moved out of their home.
"I just think that she lost that loving feeling," he says. "We grew apart, but I really don't know why or how it happened. I'm not angry at her and I don't resent her. This isn't easy for either of us."
A few months after the split, Cotter began photographing the dress in various states of incorrect usage and launched the blog My Ex-Wife's Wedding Dress. He asked readers to make suggestions, and now the list has grown to 50 creative uses for the dress.
Cotter's ex-wife wasn't aware of his new hobby until he told her himself this week.
"I've been in contact with [my ex-wife] in the last couple days," says Cotter. "She's not a fan of it. I wanted a bit of attention for the blog to attract someone to help publish a book, but I didn't foresee what's been going on so far."
Leave your ideas for things Cotter should do with his ex-wife's wedding dress in the comments section, and check out his five favorite uses for the garment below.
Gym Towel
"About a dozen or so people were at the gym watching my brother and me, and we got a lot of odd looks," says Cotter. "The dress wasn't really absorbent ... maybe more on the underside."
Scarecrow
"I like the way this one turned out," says Cotter, of the Darth Vader helmet ornament (below). "There were no birds to scare, so it didn't have to do a whole lot."

Sports Banner
"It's an impressive dress in its construction and versatility," says Cotter.

Yoga Mat
"I went to a studio and there were only three of us there with an instructor," says Cotter. "I had never done yoga before and I'm not flexible, but the dress worked great as a mat."
Grocery Bag
"At the checkout, when the clerk asked, 'Paper or plastic?' I said I was going to use my ex-wife's wedding dress," says Cotter. "The clerk was a bit surprised, and the lady in line behind me said that if I really loved [my ex-wife], I wouldn't be doing that. When [she learned] that it was my ex-wife's dress, the lady said, '[Go ahead] -- you use that as a grocery bag.'"

Got any of your own suggestions for Cotter for another use for the dress?
All photos courtesy of Kevin Cotter.
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Friday 21 May
By Mike
put alot of helium balloons inside of it and it could be the Balloon girl. then you could hide it in the garage attic . use it as a Motorcycle cover, and call it a HOG.
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Saturday 22 May
By nika
PS Go U of A!!!!
Friday 21 May
By sharon
I think that it would make a great grill cover!
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Friday 21 May
By rosemary
Throw it out. It's past history.
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Friday 21 May
By Marly
I agree. Throw it away & quit acting like a little boy. Probably why she left in the first place. Looks like a sports nut? How gay !
Friday 21 May
By Dee
Wrap it around a rose bush so you keep getting SWEET memories from it.
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Friday 21 May
By cottagediva
Cut it up into squares and use it as toilet paper.
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Saturday 22 May
By adelaide
2 things 1 wipe your butt with it save yourself some money buying toilet paper ,or since it seems like you want it around and keep using it why not use it over your dinner table as a table cloth ..
Friday 21 May
By muffinfluffer
cut into little squares, wipe butt with it.
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Friday 21 May
By Lynn
Wallpaper a bathroom with it? Use your imagination...
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Friday 21 May
By NYCD
Take it to the beach..a large towel to lie on.
Wash your car with it.
When painting...a drop cloth.
After washing the dog..dry the dog with it.
When boat riding..raise a new flag.
Cold day at football games..it becomes a blanket.
During Halloween..dress the dead bride. (not a real one)
Have a party..make a canopy for the guest it sit under.
Shall I go on??
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Friday 21 May
By Barb
Use it to a line a litter box
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Friday 21 May
By meghager
oh use the cat litter one for last
Friday 21 May
By Sadie
He says he's not angry at her and doesn't resent her. But it seems like he is and does. Perhaps rightly so, but there might be some healthier ways he could move on. Like get a girlfriend? Trouble is, that if he makes this too public and carries on with it, he will have a hard time getting a new girlfriend or find the right person. Who would want to date someone who is obsessed with revenge against a dress?
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Saturday 22 May
By Clara
I thought he sounded a bit insincere. Why not just donate it to Goodwill so that some other bride could use it?
Friday 21 May
By bonnie
OH how proud your daughter must be, the wedding dress should have been handed down to her. You will be sorry some day. enjoy the moment!
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Saturday 22 May
By hd
You DO NOT hand down a dress from a FAILED Marriage for your daughter to use. DUH! The witch cleaned him out when she left so he needs to do something fun ... I'd contact a gay guy the size of the dress and have him wear it to one of those gay parades they have, photograph it, and then then send it back to the ex ... after he then uses it as a litter box. and Bonnie Ill bet you and the other whining women beg for closure for women ... well this is his closure and a funny way to do it ... it harms no one and its all in great fun ... Im sure you sent your ex-bf's underwear back to him ... after you had the dog/cat/bord use it ... its the same.
Friday 21 May
By Gia
Childish..donate it to a woman who can't afford one.
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Friday 21 May
By Marie
I agree with you 100%. The man needs to donate the dress to a charitable organization and move on!! Revenge is not sweet!! Go and get a life!!!!
Saturday 22 May
By Sharon
I am big for recycling, but not everything we own has to go to someone who needs it. Sometimes we need it. It is his and he is using it as he needs to. I do not believe in revenge either. But by using humor, he is helping himself get over a painful situation. And, he is not hurting any of you. Or would you prefer he pay thousands to a shrink, and walk around in pain for a year or so.