To us, the best thing about moving to New York is that you only have to do it once. There's nothing harder and more dispiriting than those first few months when you realize they weren't kidding about the throngs of people, the oppressively hot subway system and the impenetrable females who inhabit Manhattan. (No pun intended.) So, we empathize with the single guy behind the site Dating Brian, who aims to chronicle his next 30 dates (in 30 days) in the City.
Brian [last name withheld] gave Asylum his initial reaction to the dating scene here: "Daunting, to say the least -- it's definitely no Milwaukee. [Thank God for that, we must add.] I dabbled a bit in online dating, but I found it overall to be a bit disconnected."
He admits it's bizarre to hear that from somebody who is "crowdsourcing his dating life over the Internet," but he insists that he will have better luck setting up a website designed to get him publicity and as many dates as possible -- and so DatingBrian.com was born.
"I've really only been in one serious relationship in my life, and can't say I've had much dating experience," Brian tells Asylum. "So, I think meeting a ton of new people through dating fits my current situation. I mean, I think it's my history that got my friends to push me into this project."
He believes that with the help of the always-friendly and always-helpful Internet, several appealing females will be sent his way.
In our opinion, he seems relatively harmless -- almost harmless enough that we'd let our sister out of our sight with him for five seconds. Keep reading for his introductory video, which is disarmingly charming ... or heartbreakingly naïve. You decide.


























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Saturday 17 July
By Carolyn
I'm a little older than this guy but what the heck I'll try anything once.
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Saturday 17 July
By Ann
It never ceases to amaze me that in a world with over 6 billion people and a city like New York with over 8 million people, there are so many single, unattached young people. What's wrong with the younger generation. My husband who is now in his late sixties had no problem getting women when he was young. He pursued me relentlessly before we started dating. He told me upfront his intentions were good and he meant it. He's as charming as ever. The younger generation wants to be "cool" which means you don't show your feelings, play stupid games and don't commit. Women love when men do the pursuing. I would think overly aggressive women would be a turn off to men but society is changing. Nice men and women seem to be the losers because the rules have changed and nice people do seem to finish last in the dating world. Today it's about wasteful hook ups and STDs.
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Monday 19 July
By LisaM
He's a cute kid, but what does he have to offer? C'mon, lets get real, is he just wanting to meet 30 different girls, or is he planning on finding the right one? He should apply for one of those single shows..batchlor (sp)
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Sunday 18 July
By ericb955
What Brian doesn't seem to realize is that among singles in New York, women outnumber men by as much as a 10 to one margin. It's a good thing he didn't relocate to St. Louis, where single men outnumber single women by a 52%-48% margin.
I'm a nice guy, and I've been out of a relationship nearly 17 years. I'm from the '80s generation, and nice guys have not been the male archetype since the 1970s. I am not afraid to commit, and I got sick of the stupid games a long time ago. Since I was in high school, I've wanted to get married. Trouble is, not many women are marriage-minded.
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Sunday 18 July
By Master Chief
Its sad that so many women are stuck in a bad relationship because they just seem to have this "need" to be with a jerk. Men get such a bad rep because these women are attracted to the jerks and won't even bother with the guy who would treat her as if she were the only one.
I've been told many times, that I would make a wonderful husband, but I'm not "cute" enough to date. That doesn't even make sense.
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Sunday 18 July
By Genie
I'm sorry to tell you this, but most women will only date you if you're cute. If you're a good guy, and you are good husband material, you're only going to get the ladies who are serious about marriage. I'm 19 and there is a guy a few years older pursuing me. Because I'm so young and not looking to get married, I'm only going to date guys I find attractive (or continue to remain single). My suggestion to you is to make yourself cute. Ask a good hairdresser what would look best for your hair, buy some new clothes, wear cologne, and most importantly, just be yourself. You'll find someone, and it'll probably happen when you stop looking and hoping so much. Take care! :)
Sunday 18 July
By Genie
Oh, and I spit on jerks, players, and manwh*res. Most women don't want a "bad boy".
Monday 19 July
By Master Chief
There you go guys, if you're ugly, wait till Genie's done dating as many cute guys as she can, then she'll have to start coming after you..
You date the cute ones because you don't want to get married yet. So when you are ready to tie the knot, are you going after a guy who isn't attractive because the cute ones are only for dating?
Sunday 18 July
By joeb
Brian is a little fruitcake...that's why he can't get a date....who would want a little sissy-boy like him?
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Sunday 18 July
By Kristen
Norjeilo, you sound just fine to me.
I really don't understand it. What woman would want to eff over a supportive partner? I sure as hell wouldn't. Heck, if I had that in my former marriage, I wouldn't be single right now.
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Sunday 18 July
By LST
I'm 46 and have been solo for ten years since my marriage failed. These days it is just too tough to meet women, especially decent ones with actual morals. I have met one or two, both were pigs with more miles on them than anyone could count. I need to find a sheep that can cook!
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Sunday 18 July
By David S.
Hey, kid, lose the girly pants and you'll be OK.
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Sunday 18 July
By Rob
First of all, if you want dates with women, you have to look the part as a male. Change the clothes first of all. That look won't get you anywhere fast with women, unless you want to date teenie boppers. A confident attitude is important, which you seem to have. Don't get serious all at once, just have fun doing things and getting to know each other. Look sharp and the women will come.
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Sunday 18 July
By KatieCouric'sNemesis
After reading these comments, I have come to the conclusion that it's not men or women who are impossible, it's the impossibly high expectations that young people have of dating and marriage.
Dating is where you find if the person is even close to being a life partner. A proposal is just that--proposing what a life together might be like; what could be accomplished together.
Young people have grown up with Daytime Drama's (Soap Opera's) portrayal of what dating and marriage is like. Everyone works at the Boutique and wears designer clothes and has lots of money to spend. Reality is that both partners will work, your clothes are purchased in big box retail stores and you live paycheck to paycheck until your assets start accumulating over time.
Every time you think you want to move to New York--look at the movies How to Lose a Guy in 10 days or Hitch. Those girls are on the prowl and the guys are on the make. Gives an entirely new slant to Asphalt Jungle.
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