When your girlfriend gives you the dreaded "Let's just be friends"-speech, don't overreact. Many guys, in a fit of anger, would proceed to burn every other bridge linking he and his newly minted ex, including deleting her from his list of friends on Facebook. This course of action is a mistake.
Put on your "Bruce Willis"-face and remember these 10 reasons for keeping up cyber-appearances. Whether or not you take these directives seriously is, of course, entirely up to you ...
1. It Will Help You Get Over Her
Ultimately, she's still human, and when you read some of the dumb things she posts, it'll remind you of the things you hated about her ... like her jokes.
2. It Shows You're Over Her (Even if You Aren't)
Yes, you hate her and still love her, but your friends will only give you a week before you become the weird, sad guy.
3. It Makes Spying on Her Easier
Back in the day, a man had to risk a restraining order to learn his ex's every move. Now, she makes it easy with status updates.
4. You'll Know Whom to Avoid
Mutual friends will take sides. Find out who's on her side via wall posts. That's as good a way as any to divide up mutual friends.
5. To Remember Her
Some of us date so much, it's hard to keep track. Especially since no one has a little black book anymore. Even if this isn't true, it's sounds really cool when you say it.

6. It Shows You're a Good Guy
Women don't stay friends with guys who treated them poorly. (They just break up with good guys in order to date them.) When your new girlfriend sees that all your exes haven't blocked you, she'll know you're not a cheater or bad person.
7. It Proves You're an Adult (Even if You Aren't)
Something as petty as deleting someone from Facebook is a gesture an important man wouldn't even waste time worrying about.
8. To Mess With Her New Boyfriends
When she updates her relationship status, he's yours. Make his online life hell.
9. To Make Her Jealous
There is nothing better than making an ex jealous. It's a feeling sweeter than first falling for her. And with your new single lifestyle, you'll have plenty of photos to make her jealous.
10. There Are Better Revenge Tactics
If you delete her, you ruin your chances at a much better revenge in the future when she's not expecting it. If you notice she's celebrating her sister's graduation at a bar on a particular night, show up on a date with the best friend she secretly hates. Every girl has that "frien-emy."




































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Sunday 25 July
By Joseph
stupid
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Monday 26 July
By Akuin
Totally agree on how stupid this article is, and what's this about every girl has a frien-emy crap. I'm very much a female, and have -never- had a frien-emy. If I hate someone I'm not friends with them. Maybe I just lack the genes to be an effective woman by men's standards as I prefer being something better then a human beings on most occasions. It's horribly insulting to be told the words -every woman- because then yer telling me if I don't have one, in yer book I'm not a woman...but at the same time I don't care. If my ex did show up with someone I knew it wouldn't actually make a difference. Hell the fiancee of my late ex is one of my best friends, I attended her wedding to her current husband.
Sunday 25 July
By katy
So mature...
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Sunday 25 July
By Mark
A little bit warped, The explanation. It's good to stay friends, but I think this lists if for all the wrong reasons.
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Sunday 25 July
By brenda
this is 10 of the dumbest reason to keep your ex as a facebook friend. Not only is it stupid its a good way to mess with her and some physical damanage could be done. whoever thought up them 10 ideas need to grow the hell up.
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Sunday 25 July
By Janie
This is truly sad. Playing little cat and mouse games like this is demeaning to men. Whether it's on some silly Networking program or not. Look where it got Ted Bundy and he didn't even have the technology. Be careful people.
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Monday 26 July
By mike
Did a junior high schooler write this article? This is ridiculous. The real problem is there are probably a lot of people that are so confused about what to do in relationships that they will actually listen to this author as if he/she knows what he/she is talking about. It's stuff like this that makes relationships so challenging. People think that game playing is how you do it. Crazy.
Sunday 25 July
By New York
Who wrote this article a ten year old??? Very immature approach.
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Monday 26 July
By AlfredJSenior
Hahaha! Are you kidding? Look at the guy's bio picture and ask yourself whether or not you would seriously consider his advice regarding what to do in your relationships with women.
Monday 26 July
By leon
lol ( The author of this article) has never met my ex.
Sunday 25 July
By Christy
wow...really stupid and immature. This is one of the surest ways to NEVER get over someone and move on with your own life. If you cling to the past relationships, you bring it into your present relationships, and ultimately mess up your future relationships. Horrible reasons to keep someone as a Facebook friend.
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Sunday 25 July
By Sonya
I cannot believe this article was posted on AOL, really poorly written, narrow minded and immature....
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Sunday 25 July
By marie
I quite enjoyed it. Hey, if someone puts all their info out there to see, there's no reason not to look, when you're ready the delete button is right there waiting for you. No harm, no foul. It's the world we live in...petty, but that's our world
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Sunday 25 July
By Martha
Very childish. My ex did #10 and I know he regrets it. I did not get mad or even, I left well enough alone. And now he is embarassed, he can't look at me when he sees me. He literally avoids coming into contact with me.
As much as I was hurt, I am proud of the way I handled myself. With dignity.
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Sunday 25 July
By Jeff
More nonsense, either stay friends the old fashioned way or move on. Face book, alot of trouble to come back and bite you in the rear.
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Sunday 25 July
By lexy
I expected something else, this is so immature it hurts. I rather show some respect, and let the other move on instead of playing mindgames...
But here a reason to stay friends, because you still have feelings and might want to get back together?!?!
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Monday 26 July
By Chalmer
So it helps you get over her but facilitates spying on her? Also, revenge is the solace of petty and stupid people.
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Monday 26 July
By Chalmer
Seeing people write like this at the professional level makes my failure to acquire a job infinitely more depressing.
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Monday 26 July
By peter
Wow. Dumb.
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Monday 26 July
By Alecia
I have no contact with any of my exes. Exes are exes for a reason.
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