Sep 13th 2010 By Emily McCombs

A Woman's Perspective on Penis Size, Part 2

Women want to know all the stuff men are thinking about them -- hence all the women's magazines articles like "33 things your guy secretly loves about you" or "What he thinks about your sex moves." Men really just want to know one thing: Is my penis big enough? In this hard-hitting follow-up to the first Woman's Perspective on penis size, Asylum's token girl answers additional questions on the all-important topic of penis size.

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Monday 13 September

By Amurican

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Ah, the perpetual question of whether or not size matters. While Emily does a great job addressing a woman's preference, she doesn't address a solution for the thimble-dicked populous.

Unfortunately, guys are at a disadvantage when augmenting anything on our bodies. Toupes or stuffing a sock down your pants will get you laughed at, while women can do all sorts of things to make themselves more attractive, leaving you to wonder where those beautiful boobs went when she finally decides you're worthy of sex and she removes that water bra. With such unfair rules, its no wonder dudes get self conscious about their jimmy's.

That being said, why engage in a lot of concern about something that you can't change? Rather than praying for a breakthrough in dick implant technology, focus on something you CAN change. If you have a smaller penis, learn how to be the best she's ever had in bed.

There's a reason women generally like larger penise: most guys don't know how to use them. With a larger penis, there's a greater chance that he will accidentally give her an orgasm while he pounds away, grunting in her ear and fantasizing about Pam Anderson with his eyes closed. Therefore if you you are concerned with the size of your hang-low (or hang-high for the phallically challenged), learn where the g-spot is, learn positions that make you go deeper, learn effective foreplay, etc. She'll be singing your praises both in and out of bed.

In short, don't get all hung up on size. There's absolutely nothing you can do about a pencil dick, thumb dick, needle dick, mosquito dick, or midget pickle. Just be interested, attentive, imaginative and above all else, effective. Even a gigantic penis is just a disappointing gigantic penis if dude doesn't know how to use it properly.

Sunday 19 September

By pkl

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Women who say size doesn't matter have never had size. My wife used to be one of those women, now she feels sorry for them. As for knowing how to use it, I do, but I don't have to. I can just stick it in and hold still while she squirms and quickly orgasms. Size doesn't just matter, it's the most important thing. It's right there with intense chemistry and orgasmic kissing.

Saturday 25 September

By duzitickle

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Size is a preference. Some women want huge schlongs, some don't.

Wednesday 06 October

By jivejerky

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Why never any conversation about the vast variety of the female goings on down there? Men are subject to disappointments, and even horror just as women are. So let's hear some female perspective on the many styles, flavors, smells, and weird flaps of that train wreck that is y'alls junk. Both good and bad of course. Personally I like it high and tight. And what's up with that man-in-the-boat thingy?

Wednesday 06 October

By hs

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jivejerky:
Yeah, I've had some bad experiences with women down there, usually it's smell. Some women think a rotting fish smell is ok or normal. Wth?!? Then of course there are the loose ones where it like f*@%ing a glass of warm water, so loose you have to pick a side to rub against. And lets not forget hair that's like barbed wire. I had an Italian girl once, geeze, she had all three of those problems. Of course that relationship didn't last, you can't have a gf that you don't want to touch.

Wednesday 06 October

By hs

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pkl:
I agree mostly with you there except I don't think it's more important than chemistry. I think hot chemistry and passionate kissing is worth more than a size increase, but I do agree it's very important and those who say it doesn't matter are high as a kite and obviously never had size as you said. It's like a tight pu$$y, it's much much better than a loose goose. If you've never had a tight one you are missing out! Remember women, after you pop out a kid they can stitch that back up. Why some women let it go is beyond me.

Wednesday 20 October

By Jean Marc Roc

Neutral

"Is it IN Yet?"
SIZE matters and as long as your doodle is not the size of a 10 pound baby, I don't think there is a normal human vagina on this earth that (baring some mental blocks ) will not appreciate SIZE! of course what is attached to the member is VERY important to your partner as much as size, but nature gave us long, strong and wide guys a gift for a higher purpose... its a stretch limo ride to the cervix for my sperm buddies..... less swimming up the vaginal canal and all the acidic and immunological terrors that await them there into the hallowed heaven temple that is the cervix/womb ... nuff said..... remember fellows ... respect is the watchword when dealing with all