Sep 27th 2010 By Emily McCombs

A Woman's Perspective on Anal Sex

Anal sex -- maybe you like it, maybe you love it, maybe you're just curious. Despite what you may have seen in porn, women have complicated feelings on the subject. Let Asylum's token girl explain to you how women feel about "going to Chili's," as well as the anal sex method that is guaranteed to fail every time.

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Tags: anal sex - AnalSex - butt sex - ButtSex - sex - womans perspective - WomansPerspective

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Friday 01 October

By John F.C. Taylor

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Another article that's clip only. Any article available should be both print and clip.

Friday 01 October

By J.E.B.

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Theee hath a thilly lithp witthh makth the thubject even thillier to thpeak about.

Saturday 02 October

By danielle

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this girl nailed it! and yeah eff the haters who wanted to hear something different. sorry guys truth hurts, and sometimes anal does too. and you should know that.

Wednesday 03 April

By L. Edwards

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This woman is so awesome! LOL!

Sunday 03 October

By Courtney

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Thank you!! No anal -_- idk why guys think it's so amazing.

Monday 04 October

By ramesh kamuni

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super madam.
thaks.
ramesh kamuni

Monday 04 October

By LRB

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OK, she's not the hottest lady around, but she is funny and right on!

Wednesday 20 October

By Jean Marc Roc

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why is it that the UGLY "women" are always protesting the kink and the gorgeous ones are out there doin it?

Sunday 10 October

By Lenn

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What the--good looking women like porn and don't complain about it?
You watch too much porn, hun.

Wednesday 06 October

By Mark

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I love your videos

Thursday 07 October

By Scott

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I can't believe people are writing articles on anal sex. The rear end is an exit not an entrance.

Monday 11 October

By spkalittleldrpls

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Can you can CONDOM, not matter where you stick "it"! Be protected!!!!

Monday 11 October

By spkalittleldrpls

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Sorry, I was "thinking" about some of the other comments, what I mean to say is...

CAN YOU SAY CONDOM? NO MATTER WHERE YOU STICK IT, BE PROTECTED!

Thursday 14 October

By Rawin

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I like her...She's funny. The lisping is kinda annoying in the beginnening but after a couple of vids it grows on you.

There is one point which bothers me. I don't know if she's trying to be funny with everything she says. Or that she's really saying what women think. I was watching the vids about penis size. And in the first one she says a guy with a penis size below 5 inches. Has a small penis and won't be able to pleasure a woman with his dick. Which to me seems kinda wrong and more like her own opinion. Of course some women like larger penises. And some just watch too much porn. But not all women need larger then average penises.

Other then that she's fun to listen to and the topics are interesting.

Saturday 16 October

By Maria Jose Ur

Neutral

My husband is always asking me to engage in anal sex. I am a little afraid it shall hurt me, but on the other side i'm curious and want to try it at least one time. How can I read the 34 comments on the subject?

Monday 18 October

By lacylady

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I have to say to all the men that want to try this.. Maybe you should so buy your other half a vibe or a dildo and let them try it on your first. make sure it is at least the size of your penis... Then... let me know what you think abou it!!

Wednesday 20 October

By Jean Marc

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"Maybe you should so buy your other half a vibe or a dildo and let them try it on your first. make sure it is at least the size of your penis... Then... let me know what you think abou it!!"
God help the partner of a woman like this.. she obviously has a problem with sexual mechanics. Not withstanding those men who would LOVE to do just that ...(myself excluded) I suppose I should give up vaginal sex with women because I am not gay and do not like the idea of being penetrated? or mayby give up carrot juice because I am not putting myself into a juicer and allowing carrots to drink me? Where does this ridiculousness end? Look ladies if you hate hetero sex that is your right and I am the last person to want to force it on you . Just don't be hatin on those that DO!

Wednesday 20 October

By Jean Marc

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"The anus is an exit not an entrance" typical comparison flaw logic that just doesn't hold up.
FACTS: The VAGINA is an EXIT as well as an ENTRANCE. So too is the NOSE, MOUTH Ears and every other orifice that the human body has. THINK before you use your brain. Or to put it another way....let it be an entrance to some FACTS and LOGIC before you use to to exit tired and untrue "cornyisms". your body is YOURS to use as you please. Just remember respect and sanitation and all should go well.

Saturday 30 October

By Rick

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It is approximately 2.5 centimeters between vagina and anus and the method of articulation of the penis is through the hip. Not a delicate instrument. If you're concerned about accidents perhaps you should be on top. Or instead of shouting "faster, harder" you should shout "faster, harder but be mindful that the angle of incidence between vagina and anus is very minimal and therefore you should carefully operate your hip within several degrees of rotation in order to ensure an appropriate conjugation of genitalia."

Monday 01 November

By jeana

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Have to say I think anal is hot. Still, as a woman, it isn't always very comfortable - especially starting out. Since there haven't been many concrete answers for those who actually want to know how to get your girl into the idea, here you go... If you want to broach the topic with your woman try starting with baby steps. Get her hot and bothered first, then try out either rimming or some finger ass play to see if she might be receptive to the concept. Sometimes a thing that doesn't sound good on paper might fly when you're in the moment. If she's into it, when she's hot and lubed up she should take top and be in control of speed, depth, etc. A slow warm up to the act is critical! Remember, there are two sphincters controlling the anus and just cuz you made it through door number one, doesn't mean that door number two is open and ready. Door number two will open on it's own with a little patience. Through out the whole bit, make sure you keep the happy button going since the closer she gets to happy, the easier it will be. Got it?